Many people knew who to trust, but some of them get betrayed by touching their children for sexual pleasure. It is a FACT that many child molesters are trusted friends or relatives of the family.
Apparently we realize the 'facts' of what has materialized with trusted family members that has occurred elsewhere...YET, why keep bringing up about the facts, etc...like there's no end to what you're trying to stipulate continuously...let me ask you this: Do you have any children and if so,
HOW would you go about it when after all that you have commented on in terms of family members, etc.?
God can't protect your children, only you can. God is only there to give you faith, the rest is up to you.
It looks like you have an entirely different view of who and what God is, with faith and trusting in the Lord God, He can provide protection and guidance for the children of true and faithful believers (parents)...I am not condoning for whatever you may believe in...in regards to the Almighty God...but for 'us', we tend to believe 'our' children can be watched over and protected in more ways than those who don't rely or have God in their life or not allowing Him to be in their lives daily....indeed, the 'rest' may be upon ourselves...teaching and admonishing our children to learn and live without having 'fear' of anyone, giving them the kind of support/rapport and what they need to do when someone, especially any other family member(s) approach them in a wrongful way....
The point is, sometimes we think we know people well enough to invest your trust into but turn out to be a bad investment. This is the majority cause in the majority of child molestation cases because people made errors in judging people.
Considering the majority is a very
SMALL percentage of the
TOTAL cases which have been reported involving circumstances surrounding babysitters
compared to what's taken place in daycares, etc...the reason possible is that we seem to read or hear more of a family member, etc. acting out wrongfully is simply because it's deplorable and down-right disgusting which tends to implicate much media attention, etc....more so than in cases where it happens like in a daycare, etc.,....
I'm sorry, but that is what life's about. People make mistakes and learn from them because they depend too much on the others when they should depended on themselves more.
We all have made mistakes and continue to do so, we'll hopefully have learn positively and adjust accordingly from our own mistakes...but that don't mean we have to be depending on ourselves much more...where 'faith and trust' is instilled in the lives of those who dearly entrust oneself and love ones to the 'One' above...is how life CAN be and WILL be for those who allow to live in this way....
Judgment is usually no good because child molesters are very difficult to identify because they are so well at hiding their true images.
Hmm...usually no good??? Growing up or raising up with either parents or siblings don't account for any judgement? *shakin' my head* Perhaps with strangers, etc...whereas the better part of our own judgements of them may not be so good then...!
Of course it is sad anytime a certain family we may hear or read about had another family member or relative served cruel injustice to their own child(ren)....
Lastly, life isn't gift-wrapped carefully, it does comes with several risks...although each of us is bestowed with certain elements and instincts to be able to 'judge wisely' and each of us have our own opinions for whom we can entrust with to care and watch our child(ren)....
