Why do you think I am making it sound like you are more of an idiot than hearing people? I didn't say that at all, and I don't understand why you are pissed off at me.
That is something I think most people never knew, the reason why waiters/waitresses sometimes give those menus to deaf people. I never knew it until growing silent posted it. It makes sense now that I read it. I think that most people hear the story about deaf people getting braille menus think the waiters/waitresses are being stupid or insulting. I think most people, deaf or hearing, think this when they first learn about it. I am not differentiating between the two. When I read the explanation, it was amazing, to finally understand this good reason. I like it when things finally make sense. I would think that anyone, deaf or hearing, would also like for things to make sense. That is all.
I don't think I'm engaging in nonsense. I don't think I'm having nerve, nor am I making stupid remarks/exclamations. I am definitely not telling you what you should or should not do. And I'm not out of line.
You bet I am hearing instead of d/Deaf or HOH? Of course I am hearing. I have been clear about my hearing status since I first joined. I introduced myself as hearing, explained my reasons for being here, and it's also on my profile page. I have never ever pretended to be deaf.
And I am not looking down on you or anyone. Being hearing does not automatically mean looking down on deaf people, or thinking that you are a child.
And I am not abusing you. After reading your post, I have to say that you are abusing me.