Thanks I appreicate the back up and support. I feel awesome!
Yep I am doing great! It's ok nothing ever is a mistake in life. I have to trust that. There was a reason for this.
I'm going to ignore that ....
Maybe you should try being a single mom...see how it feels?
And my hubby had no reason to leave. I did all of that and more. He said he couldn't give me reasons and that it wasn't my fault. It was him. So...
as much as I try to anaylize it and beat myself up over it. I can't. I need to go on with my life. Yes, I love him. It hurts more than you can imagine. But I love him enough, to let him go. As hard, as painful, as has wrong as it seems. That is real love.
My entire family is shocked. No warning.
Oh and by the way our lives are stable. I am the stable one. I am the strong force. The last week has been hell. So how can you judge? How you can see or feel or anything what I am walking through? I would like to know that? Having a new pet, its the best thing for us. I am a single mother, alone with two children - I cannot hear what if someone came in and something happened? It's the best defense. Plus I am a total dog lover. So please knock off the harsh judgements and opinions because you really have no clue what you are talking about.
sorry to hear about him leaving you without warning. I had similar situation a few months ago. I found out wife was having affair with no real hints of problems in my marriage. That kind of broken heart is as good as your spouse dying on you with no ability to prepare for it. I have a little puppy (9 months old now) that has been my saving grace. You are able to cope much better than I; it still
eats at my soul occasionally, but slowly getting there.
Yea, I agree with u...being a single mom is very very tough. I was raised by a single mom who had no job skills nor advanced education and she had to start at square one at the age of 28 with 2 deaf children, mortgage and other bills. It was tough for all of us but my mom is strong and we all survived.
I experienced being a single mom for 4 years...whew..very tough and I applaud u with 2 children while I only had 1. I have my 2nd child and having 2 children is a lot harder than having 1. Hang in there..