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Louisianalady

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Hi, I am married to a good man, with a beautiful loving family but I am just wanting to be with a man for a night or two of just good ole sex and nothing else. I feel so guilty for saying this because my husband is a loyal, hardworking man who is good to me but the chemistry and excitement is no longer there.

Just wondering if anyone else is going through this?
 
Holy cow. Perhaps before I say something harsh, one of our good church goers would like to provide sweetly worded advice...
 
Check out craigslist....doll urself up in a Red Dress and hit the Bars....:giggle:....maybe even drop in to the Hells Angels Motorcycle Club?....Set up a flashing "red blinking light" in your bedroom window?.....:laugh2:
 
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rockin'robin said:
Check out craigslist....doll urself up in a Red Dress and hit the Bars....:giggle:....maybe even drop in to the Hells Angels Motorcycle Club?....Set up a flashing "red blinking light" in your bedroom window?.....:laugh2:
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:laugh2: that's a good way to announce then maybe, her hubby will think it for him and have a wild night :lol:
 
Just get out your good ol purple didlo and watch porn online and call it a night. You'll be fine.
 
Louisianalady said:
Hi, I am married to a good man, with a beautiful loving family but I am just wanting to be with a man for a night or two of just good ole sex and nothing else. I feel so guilty for saying this because my husband is a loyal, hardworking man who is good to me but the chemistry and excitement is no longer there.

Just wondering if anyone else is going through this?
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try using a different hand. it's like whoa... different person
 
Use your time and work on your relationship with your husband. Get dolled up and have date nights with him. You only get back what you put in. I've been married 25+ years and it just gets better and better but we work on it. No good can come from cheating.
 
Jess said:
I see you gots experience, hmmm? :cool2:
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tried this too.
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it was like - whoa weird....
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Would it be called cheating if I left my turbocharged car at home and borrowed your turbocharged car because I think my turbo is slow. Your turbo is better than mine. Can I borrow it??
 
Cheating is always never a good thing. Not worth screwing up your life and others for.
 
lol, some of you made me laugh..needed that! :D

and no, it's not a joke, I am serious. like someone else said, yes sexually frustrated. Hubby knows too, that I don't want sex with him, weve lost the chemistry and honestly, I just don't like the way he does things during sex. I have told him before and tried to show him but he goes right back to his way of doing things.

dildos and porn aren't the same thing as a warm body with arms around you lol.
 
Louisianalady said:
lol, some of you made me laugh..needed that! :D

and no, it's not a joke, I am serious. like someone else said, yes sexually frustrated. Hubby knows too, that I don't want sex with him, weve lost the chemistry and honestly, I just don't like the way he does things during sex. I have told him before and tried to show him but he goes right back to his way of doing things.

dildos and porn aren't the same thing as a warm body with arms around you lol.
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take a romantic trip?
 
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Buy a book that teaches you different sex positions that you guys may never knew of.
 
Louisianalady said:
lol, some of you made me laugh..needed that! :D

and no, it's not a joke, I am serious. like someone else said, yes sexually frustrated. Hubby knows too, that I don't want sex with him, weve lost the chemistry and honestly, I just don't like the way he does things during sex. I have told him before and tried to show him but he goes right back to his way of doing things.

dildos and porn aren't the same thing as a warm body with arms around you lol.
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rent a porn movie,
Or
you can be in a charge of this situation like you can dress up, your favorite sexy outfit and order him around.

If he keeps doing the oldhabit, just hold his hands and do your way.

I dont know what else to say. i know its tough.

romantic trip is the best one too.
 
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