VamPyroX
bloody phreak from hell
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It's a matter of common sense. If a guy visits another guy's place, he should be on his best behavior. What kind of behavior is that? Asking for permission. Showing respect. Simple as that. If that guy smokes and saw no ashtray laying around, he should ask if it's alright to smoke in the apartment. If not, then smoke outside. If he walks in the kitchen and sees some fruits in a basket, he should ask if he can have an apple or banana. If not, leave it at that. When I visit people's houses for the first time, I never touch anything until that issue comes up. If we're in the living room, I'd wait for the host to take a seat before I take a seat. I won't enter the kitchen unless the host goes in the kitchen and I walk in there with him or the host gives me permission to go into the kitchen for something like a drink or some food. If I need to go to the bathroom, I'll ask the host where the bathroom is. Even if I know where the bathrooms are, I don't know which bathroom they prefer me to use... so asking doesn't hurt.Cookie Monster said:No offense to you CoolieFroggie but this thread is tacky. The fault lies within both of the guilty parties when open communication isn't set up about how one party wishes his/her house to be treated and the other party doesn't respect the host/hostess' domain.
It all boils down to having common sense and KootchieBootchie is so correct in what he posted. Whenever we visited each other, I wanted to do dishes or other errands around the house, he refused and made sure I relaxed. Vice versa for KootchieBootchie when he visited me and my parents made sure I knew my proper manners to make the bed, clean up after myself and send a thank you card & pay dinner for my hosts.
It's a matter of respect and common sense.