jillio
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35 yrs? thats nothing... think of my self-esteem hurting for many years depressed and my sister have bioplar disorder when my dad was sick with hiv.. it was not full blown then.. but people wouldnt come here and hang out with us just cuz they said we all have hiv.. but my dad is hte only one that have hiv.. freinds stopped coming here afraid to get the disease... thinking its contiagous... jeez
they were ignorant.... they didnt stop to look up information.. they didtn care... they think about themselves..
eventually my dad died from full blown AIDS in 87. we are still alive.. those people who shun us and doesnt want to be our friends gulped that we dont have the disease. too late there are damages already done to us. it hurts for many years. it take long time to deal with it... i had counseling thank goodness it does help me.. but my sister never did.. that explains why she have bioplar disorder... she will never get well cuz she dont have treatment .. due no health insurance. that is not my problem.
Those who shun us now have regrets... are they my friends.. no.. but i do forgive them.. they should have thought of that before hurting one of us... sigh...
I am sorry that your family went through that tragedy, FC. People who are ignorant and misinformed rarely realize how much damage their ignorance can do to others. The bad part is, there are still people out there who believe that you can get HIV from someone sneezing on you and other ways that are just as ridiulas.