JoeyDeafNinja
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I live in Travelers Rest, SC. I figured f I provide a location, you'd probably know where to suggest or make advice and etc like that.
It has been almost two years since my father passed away due cancer and brain tumor. He used to have good paying job (He was cable guy for AT&T) and we were in "middle class". In 2010, it went downhill after he got stroke and found out he had brain tumor so he had to get surgery to remove tumors. It went success. He returned to work after regain control of his right hand. Few months later, we found out he had stage 4 cancer which he can't go outside any longer. He had go through chemo. His heath decline over time and it reached the point where he had to visit doctor because he had low blood level. Eventually he came home in hospital bed and we had hospice nurse come over sometime to check on him. Doctor said he had about 2 to 3 months left to live. Possible less than that. It was only two months before he passed away. He could not beat cancer however his brain tumor is main cause, it regrew back and made his heath worse so that is why he could not win the fight. He fought for almost 3 years and lost. It was big impact on our lives. Now finical is coming to kick our asses.
Now we dropped into "low class" poor family. But thanks to dad's good friendship with landlord, we are able to have roof even we could not pay rent all time. In my heart I knew we'd have to move to cheaper home someday. So I told her that we should sell our stuff we don't use anymore through yard sale or pawnshop. She is okay with it but when I told her that we need to move, she got little upset and said we will be fine even I know we will not and I don't like the fact that she has to use all of my SSI and make my bank account owe (overdrawn balance) to pay for bills she claimed to be around $800 worth of bills. Rent is not included. I told her how it is not fair that I could not even save a penny for myself. I am still jobless and still looking for two years. Everyone in my house (Brother, sister, her boyfriend and mom) have job. I am pretty frustration. We live in small town and she won't willing to drive me to bit far just for job. I have fear of driving. But at least I got apt with VR next week (Could not do this week because no gas money). Travelers Rest does not even have bus route.
So What should I do? How do I convince her to agree that we should move to cheaper home or move to Florida and live with grandparents for while? (We will have to use their camper. Their camper only have room for 3 or 4 people.)
It has been almost two years since my father passed away due cancer and brain tumor. He used to have good paying job (He was cable guy for AT&T) and we were in "middle class". In 2010, it went downhill after he got stroke and found out he had brain tumor so he had to get surgery to remove tumors. It went success. He returned to work after regain control of his right hand. Few months later, we found out he had stage 4 cancer which he can't go outside any longer. He had go through chemo. His heath decline over time and it reached the point where he had to visit doctor because he had low blood level. Eventually he came home in hospital bed and we had hospice nurse come over sometime to check on him. Doctor said he had about 2 to 3 months left to live. Possible less than that. It was only two months before he passed away. He could not beat cancer however his brain tumor is main cause, it regrew back and made his heath worse so that is why he could not win the fight. He fought for almost 3 years and lost. It was big impact on our lives. Now finical is coming to kick our asses.
Now we dropped into "low class" poor family. But thanks to dad's good friendship with landlord, we are able to have roof even we could not pay rent all time. In my heart I knew we'd have to move to cheaper home someday. So I told her that we should sell our stuff we don't use anymore through yard sale or pawnshop. She is okay with it but when I told her that we need to move, she got little upset and said we will be fine even I know we will not and I don't like the fact that she has to use all of my SSI and make my bank account owe (overdrawn balance) to pay for bills she claimed to be around $800 worth of bills. Rent is not included. I told her how it is not fair that I could not even save a penny for myself. I am still jobless and still looking for two years. Everyone in my house (Brother, sister, her boyfriend and mom) have job. I am pretty frustration. We live in small town and she won't willing to drive me to bit far just for job. I have fear of driving. But at least I got apt with VR next week (Could not do this week because no gas money). Travelers Rest does not even have bus route.
So What should I do? How do I convince her to agree that we should move to cheaper home or move to Florida and live with grandparents for while? (We will have to use their camper. Their camper only have room for 3 or 4 people.)