I know..that's why I told Taylor that people may not be aware that they r holding people to different standards just because they work in a certain profession. As for the bar thing, in the olden days teachers were spinisters who were held to a higher standard so I guess people subconsicously adopt those views without realizing it. I admit that I do see cops differently that I see in a mailman and a cable guy. Lol
As for going to a bar while working, there have been days when I was VERY tempted to do so! Hahahahaha....
Shel, I totally forgot that you were a teacher...and you are a perfect example of what I was saying....Teachers are also often held to a different standard...and the example you made about the bar is good. Teachers are human too, and can go out to a bar or club just like anyone else...but your students parents may find it strange, etc.
Something that came to mind is cops that smoke cigarettes...or teachers that smoke. I was off duty, plain clothes, outside of my house grabbing a smoke when a neighbor said to me how strange it was that I was smoking (this neighbor is a smoker btw). Its not like I am in uniform, on the street corner of Main Street puffing away giving Marlboro's to toddlers.
As for the comments about being on-duty, the cops you see parked ARE on duty. I work nights only...my shift starts at 10pm and runs until 8am (soon to be 8pm to 8am). I don't get breaks as other employers are required to give their employees, I don't get a lunch hour as other employers are required to give their employees. I don't have the luxury of stopping work to call and make a doctors appointment, etc like civilian employees do.
Thats why I wonder why people get upset if they see a cop parked somewhere or grabbing a bite to eat. I eat when I can...and as Cheri can probably attest to, when I do, it is often interupted by a call. Many, many, many times I have ordered food, just to take a single bite and get a call and have to leave. I dont have the time to wait for the waitress to throw it in a box for me to eat in the road. I leave my uneaten meal on the table, pay for it, and then roll out to answer the call. Sometimes I dont even get the bite in (this happened to me last night).