SpaCityMedic
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So, i went on a date with a hearing guy i met on plentyoffish.com, and it was possibly the most awkward thing in the world. He picked me up and though i had intended on just going voice off, and using lipreading, sign or paper, i figured that may be weird for him so i did speak. He kept sitting there after a very long pause, and would just laugh or smile to himself, and i would ask whats funny, and he would just say, "oh nothing... Haha.... Nothing, its just this is really weird." i didnt think there was anything so weird about dating me before i lost my hearing, so why should it be so different now! So, though we had plans to go see a movie, he decided against it because "well you cant hear what theyre saying anyhow". I was never so offended in my life... Suddenly this man is an expert on MY DEAFNESS!! so instead of a movie, instead of dinner, instead of doing anything remotely DATELIKE, like, say taking me into any of the public places we had previously planned to go-- he takes me to a closed carwash.
So, i went on a date with a hearing guy i met on plentyoffish.com, and it was possibly the most awkward thing in the world. He picked me up and though i had intended on just going voice off, and using lipreading, sign or paper, i figured that may be weird for him so i did speak. He kept sitting there after a very long pause, and would just laugh or smile to himself, and i would ask whats funny, and he would just say, "oh nothing... Haha.... Nothing, its just this is really weird." i didnt think there was anything so weird about dating me before i lost my hearing, so why should it be so different now! So, though we had plans to go see a movie, he decided against it because "well you cant hear what theyre saying anyhow". I was never so offended in my life... Suddenly this man is an expert on MY DEAFNESS!! so instead of a movie, instead of dinner, instead of doing anything remotely DATELIKE, like, say taking me into any of the public places we had previously planned to go-- he takes me to a closed carwash.