Whitney, you are in my thoughts and prayers.
My mother was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in June, 2004.
Fortunately for her, she was able to live for 5 months following her diagnosis. That's good considering the fact that the survival rate for pancreatic cancer patients is 3-6 months.
She refused chemo saying that when it was her time to "go home," G*d would finally take away all the pain.
Interestingly enough, exactly one week after pleading with G*d to take her home, she peacefully passed away in her sleep.
I admire my mother in so many ways, but one of the things I admire most about her was how she never once complained about having cancer. She said it was one of the cards that was dealt to her, so therefore she would accept it and live life the best she could during her remaining months.
I love you, mother. May you forever rest in peace.