MotorexGTR32
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I am a single father and raising my 2 little daughters on my own who is 2 and 4 years old.
Being single can be great for many reasons especially giving all my attentions to my daughters as much as I can be as it is my duty to be a father to them.
My point is here I hate the fact that many women always automatically thinks I am married or not available just because I have kids with me all the time everywhere I go. It made me so frustrating and sometime it scared women off that if they want to get involved with me, they don't want to take responsibilites on my daughters or be part of my daughters' lives. That's their choices and they didn't have to because it is not their kids, right? They can help if they want but I do not ask them to, though. Other reason, some would feel that I don't give a woman enough attention because I have kids with me. It doesn't mean that I have experience it which I haven't yet. It is one of my theories. I also think that it's very common that women are not used to seeing a single father to raising their kids on their own nowadays and have a woman step into their lives if she want to be a part of it. It's totally opposite that men accept a single mother as no problem but for a single father, I don't think so.
It's not that I don't have a problem with having my kids with me to anywhere I go. I sacrificed my single life to get my daughters back after my break up with my ex fiancee who we had been together for nearly 4 years.
I rarely going out to have fun or do something that I really don't remember when the last time I went out on my own with my friends because I am raising my kids on my own which is pretty tough but very rewarding to me.
What's your reaction to this or have any single fathers out there experienced like this? Any insights would be appreciated.
Being single can be great for many reasons especially giving all my attentions to my daughters as much as I can be as it is my duty to be a father to them.
My point is here I hate the fact that many women always automatically thinks I am married or not available just because I have kids with me all the time everywhere I go. It made me so frustrating and sometime it scared women off that if they want to get involved with me, they don't want to take responsibilites on my daughters or be part of my daughters' lives. That's their choices and they didn't have to because it is not their kids, right? They can help if they want but I do not ask them to, though. Other reason, some would feel that I don't give a woman enough attention because I have kids with me. It doesn't mean that I have experience it which I haven't yet. It is one of my theories. I also think that it's very common that women are not used to seeing a single father to raising their kids on their own nowadays and have a woman step into their lives if she want to be a part of it. It's totally opposite that men accept a single mother as no problem but for a single father, I don't think so.
It's not that I don't have a problem with having my kids with me to anywhere I go. I sacrificed my single life to get my daughters back after my break up with my ex fiancee who we had been together for nearly 4 years.
I rarely going out to have fun or do something that I really don't remember when the last time I went out on my own with my friends because I am raising my kids on my own which is pretty tough but very rewarding to me.
What's your reaction to this or have any single fathers out there experienced like this? Any insights would be appreciated.