12 years!!!

Deafteen90 said:
Hello.

Just wondering if 12 years is too old?

I am 18 years old and this man he is 30, he has just told me he likes me
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Nope, age or 15 years apart does not matter. Just follow to the heart, love and confience of attractive, sex, etc. One lady I dated was 21 and I was 37...but we did not work out well because she just did not want to look for the heart so I said okay and let's be friends!
 
it would be different if you were 25 and the guy 37 though. The maturity wouldn't be that far apart then.
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Ditto! You change so much in your early twenties that even kids who were dating heavily in college have broken up.
 
I have only seen one couple with a similar age gap that worked out, that being the Dr's Lovett at TTU. They now celebrate, I think, 20 years together.
 
I think being 18 is a pretty young to have a relationship with a 30 years old man. It sure does have a big gap in the age bracket. It would be better if you find a nice young man of almost around your age whether older or younger like a few years younger or few years older than you. I am married to my husband who is four years younger than me and we have been married for eleven years. I would not want to marry someone who is way over the hill or way younger than me so I can be comfortable in the relationship around my age. Like some few ADers said that just follow your heart and see if you and your new found guy have a click to start the fireworks which mean love, I think. Loves come in different ways to express love. If you don't want him, then don't go out with him. Just be happy being single until you feel ready. :hug:
 
I think an 18 year old is better off in their group to get better experience and learn mistakes from their own relationship. A 30 year old usually better off with someone generally experienced in relationship, depending on their history as well. I wouldn't date an 18 year old because of their socialism and maturity issues.
 
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