What Ticks You Off (Most) About Hearies?

At my last job, the boss forbid me to use sign language when addressing deaf people. I could only talk to the interpreter if they had one or write what I wanted to say on paper. Nosey B..., they assumed I was talking about them. I explained what was going on and signed whenever the heads weren't around. Ofcourse my other coworkers were a bunch of Judas' but I thought it was insulting not to sign to them. Now i'm not working for them anymore. Great for me!!! (I'm seriously dancing right now; that place was hell)
 
At my last job, the boss forbid me to use sign language when addressing deaf people. I could only talk to the interpreter if they had one or write what I wanted to say on paper. Nosey B..., they assumed I was talking about them. I explained what was going on and signed whenever the heads weren't around. Ofcourse my other coworkers were a bunch of Judas' but I thought it was insulting not to sign to them. Now i'm not working for them anymore. Great for me!!! (I'm seriously dancing right now; that place was hell)

I am very glad that you left this horrible place. What is wrong with this people who are close minded and don't want to learn Deaf Culture? They are ignorants! :roll:
 
Well, you know what, a lot of hearies are truly hypocrite. Any hearie bans ASL then hearies should ban themselves from using their hand gestures and body language while they are speaking!! Duh them!! Oh, that also applies to hearing person who is part of Native American Indian descendant that is being against sign language is a friggin' hypocrite. It means they don't respect their own Native Indian descendants whom used sign language such as in Sioux.
 
That's a good one Tousi. And a very important variable in the attitude that parents develop right off the bat.

The one about Angel's dad holding up his mustache when he talks is hilarious. I've had one speaker do that, but he was stretching his upper lip so bad that I was snickering and couldn't read his lips anyway.


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What annoys me the most is that hearies are so hung up on the necessity of speech/speaking. Visual/sign language surpasses all language and communication barriers. Even simple gestures such as a smile or a hug can go far more than a mile on the spoken word.
 
For those of us deaf/hoh that work in a cubicle environment:

Doesn't it royally piss you off when you are carrying a conversation with a hearing person in a cubicle, and some other hearing asswipe in the adjacent cubicle (who is listening to your conversation) butts in your conversation without you knowing about it?

Especially when the person you are talking directly to just laughs out of the blue and you have to stop and wonder what was so funny, then it hits you that someone else is talking....

This happens to me all the time. I usually speak out to whomever is talking "don't you have work to do?" or "did you know that it is rude to interrupt?"

Some people just can't mind their own fucking business...
 
Mine is whenever I talk to someone new and they are not use to having an interpreter they become awkward and then act very carefully around me. Like they are walking on eggshells around me. It frustrates me a lot.

Sometimes I just talk to someone using my voice they know I use ASL and my interperter is not with me and they will get tongue tied around me.

Another time while I was outside waiting for the bus a hearing person came up to me and was asking me something but I couldn't understand her clearly so I said I'm hard of hearing can you speak up or say that again? And she looked at me like all confused and was saying oookkkkayyyy and looked at me again and slowly walked away as if I was sick or ill. Or sometimes people will whisper or talk in my ear that doesn't work for me I have to read lips.

I need to make a cute brochure for hearing people

how to communicate with a hard of hearing/deaf person

1. speak up
2. move your lips I lipread
3. do not repeat the word over and over use it in a sentence
4. if you know ASL use it!
5. if all else fails just get a pen and paper
6. Be patient I'm a good and nice person
 
Mine is whenever I talk to someone new and they are not use to having an interpreter they become awkward and then act very carefully around me. Like they are walking on eggshells around me. It frustrates me a lot.

Sometimes I just talk to someone using my voice they know I use ASL and my interperter is not with me and they will get tongue tied around me.

Another time while I was outside waiting for the bus a hearing person came up to me and was asking me something but I couldn't understand her clearly so I said I'm hard of hearing can you speak up or say that again? And she looked at me like all confused and was saying oookkkkayyyy and looked at me again and slowly walked away as if I was sick or ill. Or sometimes people will whisper or talk in my ear that doesn't work for me I have to read lips.

I need to make a cute brochure for hearing people

how to communicate with a hard of hearing/deaf person

1. speak up
2. move your lips I lipread
3. do not repeat the word over and over use it in a sentence
4. if you know ASL use it!
5. if all else fails just get a pen and paper
6. Be patient I'm a good and nice person

Good list!

We need to wear a button for hearing people that reads "I am DEAF.....Don't worry it is NOT contagious". :shock:
 
For those of us deaf/hoh that work in a cubicle environment:

Doesn't it royally piss you off when you are carrying a conversation with a hearing person in a cubicle, and some other hearing asswipe in the adjacent cubicle (who is listening to your conversation) butts in your conversation without you knowing about it?

Especially when the person you are talking directly to just laughs out of the blue and you have to stop and wonder what was so funny, then it hits you that someone else is talking....

This happens to me all the time. I usually speak out to whomever is talking "don't you have work to do?" or "did you know that it is rude to interrupt?"

Some people just can't mind their own fucking business...

Yep Yep Yep...THAT HAPPENS at my in laws CONSTANTLY. I used to get sooooo pissed off about it because I was doing the accodomating to meet their hearing needs but yet I get shortchanged. So, I tell them not to do that anymore cuz it is rude and I, then, tell them if they continue to do that, I will take my son and leave.
 
Yep Yep Yep...THAT HAPPENS at my in laws CONSTANTLY. I used to get sooooo pissed off about it because I was doing the accodomating to meet their hearing needs but yet I get shortchanged. So, I tell them not to do that anymore cuz it is rude and I, then, tell them if they continue to do that, I will take my son and leave.

Happened to me tonight. :roll: Cannot WAIT to go to Gallaudet or RIT...anywhere I don't have to deal with that!
 
What I always always ALWAYS hated was when I was in a noisy environment and was trying to hold conversations... back in high school... say, in the cafeteria or at the football games... was that if I asked someone to repeat themselves, sometimes more than once (at this point, everyone knew I was HOH) they would mock the sign language while speaking really slowly and essentially just being jerks. More so the guys than the girls, but the girls kinda just laughed along with it. Of course, I would respond by signing "Go screw yourself with a ten foot pole" or something of that nature. But since it was a predominantly hearing culture I was in, the joke was lost on them and I had no appreciative audience.

But I do have a hilarious story - I worked at a Wal-mart eons ago, and made several friends there - well, one day some of them were interested to see how well I could lip read. Ironically enough, I demonstrate this ability quite a lot on a regular basis, even proving to hearies (love that term!) that they could do it too; simple words that everyone uses a LOT they seem to recognize. I always get them with vacuum, though, hehehe! I digress, though... back to the story!

So I was demonstrating my lipreading ability - my friends were quite impressed with how I could see what they were saying while they were not making any sound at all. The manager came over and asked what was going on, what's with all the laughing, why aren't you guys working, etc., etc. My buddy Jason explained what was going on, and then the guy covers his mouth and said out loud.... "Bet you can't tell what I'm saying, huh?"

"No, but I heard what you said just fine!"

Laughter ensues, mayhem follows, full scale riot raze the city. Well, okay, just the laughter. ;)

This happened over a decade ago, and it's still a recurring tale that gets told!
 
that's my favorite...I love it when people ask me if I can read in Braille. After dealing with that for so many years, I have nothing left but laugh at their faces. It is not worth getting angry over. It makes me wonder if blind people were ever asked the question "Oh, do you know sign language?"

Um... yes. My dad is blind.

Interestingly, yes I can read Braille and I also know deaf/blind manual language but obviously it's nothing to do with deafness so not usually quite sure what to say to this question - yes I can read Braille but that is STILL a stupid question.

What I hate is how often you have to be able-bodied to be deaf, or hearing to be a wheelchair user - "wheelchair users push intercom for assistance"... um... And our local Deaf club is sponsored by a government health project to get more BSL users to connect to health and fitness so all their activities have to be sports and active stuff like rock-climbing so because I use a power wheelchair no Deaf club for me.

My favourite is the one on the *audiology* clinic. For disabled parking you push a button and are meant to wait for a drive-thru style guy to ask for your parking permit number. I have since found out they have a video so I sign (badly! LOL) at them and wave my badge till they open the gate or pull a hearing aid and put it on the dash so they can see it on my parking permit. At all the other clinics you can park without doing this, it is ONLY audiology which has the push-button!! :eek3:
 
Boy my thread (this thread) has become a monster thread! Holy Smokes!!

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I'm more afraid of the hearing drivers that are driving, talking on a cell phone, grooming themselves in the rear view mirror, and eating a cheese burger all at the same time! Those are the idiots causing all the accidents, and I see them on the road every day.

Hey, I resemble that remark! I can balance the dog, drink my coffee, talk on the CB and shift gears all without squashing a single 4 wheeler!!! Of course I am a professional driver!!
 
Hey, I resemble that remark! I can balance the dog, drink my coffee, talk on the CB and shift gears all without squashing a single 4 wheeler!!! Of course I am a professional driver!!

Even if you are professional driver, you will still get into the accident without no warning. Think about that, eh? You just gotta be careful on how you can have a safety driving and be concern about your passengers and drivers on the roads. If you are alone, then you are taking risk and hurting other drivers. :hmm:
 
The thing that ticks me off is when you tell other hearies that you're learning to sign, and they start moving their hands to "imitate" signing. I've heard of it happening to others, but I experienced it for the first time this week. I was speechless for less than 3 sec; then I let that person have a piece of my mind.
 
Persistence is better than temper. Telling people off only pisses people off. Insist on being yourself and enjoy your signing -- One or more of those people may become interested, or at least tolerative of you and what you do.

I Sim Com a lot. One of the people at work who was the most critical of "that crap", after a couple of years being around me, signed "3" correctly to me and was proud of having done so.

I do get tired of the "Yeah, I know sign language," and flipping the bird. Each person seems to think they thought of this all by themselves and expects to be applauded for their exquisite humor.

There is a couple of people on Youtube made videos about the subject.
 
That they come here to this thread and don't notice it is for us to complain about them.
 
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