women cannot ask men out

I see nothing wrong with women asking men out. I think it's nice since women are doing their part to get things going. :)

I've been asked out a few times by women for dates. :)
 
VamPyroX said:
I see nothing wrong with women asking men out. I think it's nice since women are doing their part to get things going. :)

I've been asked out a few times by women for dates. :)
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So, as a man...pls share what does the male population think of women asking men out.? Do they want to be asked out sometime or just a certain few, like yourself? We, women, are afraid of looking like aggressive sluts when we ask men out (not all women but myself and many of my girlfriends have discussed this).
 
Gemma said:
Say you caught a glimpse of that ONE and you fell in love madly at first sight....would you just pass up the opportunity or try to find dutch courage to ask him out? What if he is very shy and would never thought that you would actually want to go out on date with him?
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That's the thing...sometimes old fashioned views have to "go"! Life is too short..and rejection is not the end of the world, isnt it. Sure, it hurts as hell but it fades over time but at least we can live with the peace of knowing that we tried instead of wondering? Hope that makes sense.
 
That makes sense.

I've asked a couple of guys out, but only ended up being rejected by most.

If I find a guy that I really like, I'll probably take all risks and ask him out.

You never know what will happen...
 
LauraHam, Why you are doubt about me?? You need to stop copycat from me! You made your own thread when I talked to DPP. I just offer him that all. You were jump on me! You called me WRONG! Why you're being a harsh at me? You're so judge on my opinion. We are different individual with couples. I was not comfort to ask men for go out. I had bad experience with my ex boyfriends. They rejected me because they didn't like me to ask them for go out. I think you're misread my post! :roll:

I never ask my husband for marry. He asked me for marry first! He got me an engaged in first place. I think you're against my opinion! You have to RESPECT my VIEW! :roll:
 
shel90 said:
So, as a man...pls share what does the male population think of women asking men out.? Do they want to be asked out sometime or just a certain few, like yourself? We, women, are afraid of looking like aggressive sluts when we ask men out (not all women but myself and many of my girlfriends have discussed this).
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Everyone is different.

The world is changing. People change their habits, traditions, preferences, etc.

Some men are old-fashioned and prefer men-ask-women-only.

Some men are modern and don't care.

I've even met some women who are turned off when men ask them out cuz it seems that men think women are helpless and shouldn't do the asking out. Sadly, a lot of these women are still single. :roll:
 
VamPyroX said:
Everyone is different.

The world is changing. People change their habits, traditions, preferences, etc.

Some men are old-fashioned and prefer men-ask-women-only.

Some men are modern and don't care.

I've even met some women who are turned off when men ask them out cuz it seems that men think women are helpless and shouldn't do the asking out. Sadly, a lot of these women are still single. :roll:
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:gpost: :gpost:
 
DeafPenPal said:
I preferred woman ask me out. It will turns me on. I think I do belong here. :lol:
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Okay, I respect your choice. I am not saying force you. I do understand how do you feeling. I just telling you about my experience that all. Everyone different. I am old-fashioned. Who cares? LoL
 
IF my boyfriend asked me out but i wanted my boyfriend asked me out first as polite on respectives
 
If this happen to both party doesn't ask each other out, then both party at risk of losing human reproduction.

Y = Male X = Female

Y ask X out = X turned down the Y maybe X is shy or think Y is too aggravating, mischief, absurd and etc...
Y ask X out = X approves the Y maybe because he cute, handsome, have humor, clever, decent personality, and etc...

X ask Y out = Y turned down the X maybe Y is shy or think X is looking to score
X ask Y out = Y approves the X maybe she's attractive, have humor, cute, sweet, decent personality, and etc...

If X and Y approve each other, then there will be more human reproduction

If X and Y doesn't approve each other, then there will be no human reproduction.

However there could be X and X and Y and Y population.
 
~♥~Pinky~♥~ said:
LauraHam, Why you are doubt about me?? You need to stop copycat from me! You made your own thread when I talked to DPP. I just offer him that all. You were jump on me! You called me WRONG! Why you're being a harsh at me? You're so judge on my opinion. We are different individual with couples. I was not comfort to ask men for go out. I had bad experience with my ex boyfriends. They rejected me because they didn't like me to ask them for go out. I think you're misread my post! :roll:

I never ask my husband for marry. He asked me for marry first! He got me an engaged in first place. I think you're against my opinion! You have to RESPECT my VIEW! :roll:
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Pinky, this is my point. I am not doubting you, I KNOW from personal experience, that you are wrong. There are examples of women on here IN THIS THREAD that have also proven you wrong. You said these exact words: "women CAN'T ask men out. Men ALWAYS ask women out first." Those words are wrong and I have proven it. Perhaps those men that you asked out didn't like YOU and not the fact that you asked them out. I personally really dont care about your life story. I'm not against your opinion, men can ask women out all they want to, but that is not the point I am getting at. I found it insulting that you would say that women are incapable of stepping up and going to a man with their feelings.

What you don't get is that you made a false statement. It is completely false that women are not able to ask men out first. It is completely false that men always ask out women first. You are married and therefore have been "out of the game" so what exactly do you know about single people nowadays?
 
Gemma said:
Laura, perhaps you can teach me how to ask a man out? :hmm: I think you are a brave girl for doing it :)
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Sure! You just have to be confident in yourself! That is most important. Because there is a 50/50 chance that he will say no, and you have to have enough confidence and love in yourself to accept that and not be discouraged from ever doing it again. You can do just about anything if you have confidence in yourself!!:D

Oh.. and try not to be cheesy about it :D Nobody likes cheesy lines! Just be yourself! Men like that.
 
From what I have seen on TV or in magazines, the cheesy/corny lines that men used. For eg: "Where have you been all my life?" :roll: :lol:
 
Matilda said:
From what I have seen on TV or in magazines, the cheesy/corny lines that men used. For eg: "Where have you been all my life?" :roll: :lol:
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haha!! or what about "Can I borrow a quarter? So I can call your mother and thank her." ugh!!:roll:
 
^^ :lol:

Ok, girls ... what lines would you like to hear from men?

Do you want them to be straightforward and get to the point, instead of cheesy/corny lines?
 
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