How did yer parent react..... - Page 5

javapride · 06-04-2003, 10:17 PM

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Originally posted by Fly Free
i came out just 2 weeks after i started dating an ex lover (hearie) -- mom being the wise one oh sheesh

mom: i noticed u are getting home later than usual!

me: yea i know

mom: u are dating arent u qq

me: yea i am mom -- met someone

mom: i figured as much -- are u dating a man or a woman q

me: ahhh -- im dating a woman

mom: ahh i see -- i hope u are happy good nite!

me: thanks mom good nite

and after that mom apparently told everybody else in my family but all of them accept me no plm with that despite the LDS background

turned out mom knew for YEARS even tho i dated men previously and was engaged 2 times with different bf's and after the 2nd ended VERY badly i stayed single for the LONGEST time approx 4 and half years or so thereabouts til i started dating again -- sheesh mom would ask me all thru middle school and high school "are u a lesbian qq" and ofc it being my time at the time gays/lesbians werent out and proud i denied and in a way im glad i did cuz my dad was a homophobic and i didnt get along with him too well when he was still with us -- i came out about a year and half after dad's death -- didnt see any reason to have the shit hit the fan with dad -- mom is cool and so is my sister and mom once mentioned to me she suspects 1 of my male cousins is gay (hes now 17 if i remmy right) but ONE most hilarious thing mom did was she TRIED to set me up with some lesbian she knew at work!!!!!! i was cuz she didnt like my ex gf at the time :-x

THAT was an intresting experince for u getting set up with ur mom LOLOL! at least ur moms cool abt this

Justin Sane · 06-04-2003, 10:44 PM

They were relieved that I wasnt gay.

d · 06-04-2003, 10:44 PM

Irish Devil Dog · 06-05-2003, 04:12 AM

That's real simple that u did w/ yer mom, Fly Free

***VamPyroX*** · 06-05-2003, 11:21 AM

My parents would kill me if I told them that I was gay. They are extremely religious and conservative. They are totally against gays and lesbians.

bbnt · 06-05-2003, 11:25 AM

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Originally posted by VamPyroX
My parents would kill me if I told them that I was gay. They are extremely religious and conservative. They are totally against gays and lesbians.

I think you should give it a try just to be sure. You can always tell them later you were joking.

***VamPyroX*** · 06-05-2003, 12:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by bbnt
I think you should give it a try just to be sure. You can always tell them later you were joking.

They don't take jokes kindly either. Once, my friend brought a "Big Johnson" t-shirt. He was wearing it when he came to my house. After he left, my parents yelled at me for being friends with him cuz of that shirt!

bbnt · 06-05-2003, 12:23 PM

I understand what your saying it was the same way in my parents home that's why I left when I was 18. Now they live 15 min from me but I only go over there 6 or 7 times a year

daprilz · 06-05-2003, 12:40 PM

i'm not lesbian and bi ... but i just made out with 2 girls before for CURIOUS, ATTENTION and FUN!

Irish Devil Dog · 06-06-2003, 03:55 AM

PeaceRainbow,

It's okay that you didnt know about this thread

. I got your msg in other thread. Enjoy your read here and share experiences

.

Irish Devil Dog · 06-06-2003, 03:58 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by VamPyroX
They don't take jokes kindly either. Once, my friend brought a "Big Johnson" t-shirt. He was wearing it when he came to my house. After he left, my parents yelled at me for being friends with him cuz of that shirt!

Ouchie... That's sux =/

SilenceGold · 06-06-2003, 04:05 AM

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Originally posted by VamPyroX
They don't take jokes kindly either. Once, my friend brought a "Big Johnson" t-shirt. He was wearing it when he came to my house. After he left, my parents yelled at me for being friends with him cuz of that shirt!

I have a grandma like that. She used to get onto me everytime I had a friend come over who had a truck with a playboy logo on the back windows. Even my friend was very respectful like coming into the house with the caps off...etc.

PeaceRainbowGal · 06-06-2003, 07:32 AM

Hello Irishdog,

Thanks for understand

I love read there !!

hug

PeaceRainbowGal · 06-06-2003, 07:42 AM

Hey Irishdog,

Little help me and How I can make picture Right-top and I have to learn here my self

Let me know anytime

~hug~

Irish Devil Dog · 06-10-2003, 08:14 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by PeaceRainbowGal
Hey Irishdog,

Little help me and How I can make picture Right-top and I have to learn here my self

Let me know anytime

~hug~

Oh you have to go in User control panal on the top and go to edit profile or options (Not sure which one) and u'll see avatar there so you'll able to do that

Apocalypse · 06-10-2003, 10:05 PM

Straight here...

MsGiglz · 06-10-2003, 10:12 PM

I remembered while ago, after i had nasty separated with 2nd ex... I stayed single for 4 years. most of my friends and families suspected that i might be a lesbian. they asked me "are you lesbian" I said.. "well, I rather a guy thingie than woman thingie" they cracked up!

Justin Sane · 06-10-2003, 10:54 PM

If my daughter is lesbian, I wouldnt care cuz I know that she can get higher chance of getting a good partner.

if my son was gay, its time to straighten the arrow. Male homosexuality is forbidden in my family.

Before you start flaming me, I wanted to tell you that its my opinion.

Fly Free · 06-10-2003, 11:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Justin Sane
If my daughter is lesbian, I wouldnt care cuz I know that she can get higher chance of getting a good partner.

if my son was gay, its time to straighten the arrow. Male homosexuality is forbidden in my family.

Before you start flaming me, I wanted to tell you that its my opinion.

i uddy Justin and accept ur own personal opinion and question -- have u thought that there might be a possibility that u might have the son feel alienated from the family and possibly just choose to cut off all contacts and how would u feel abt that q

in society generally men have a harder time confronting the fact there ARE men who do love other men as opposed to lesbians and generally the straight men finds lesbians alot more erotically attractive and oftentimes fantasize abt having the opportunity to sleep with lesbians

Justin Sane · 06-11-2003, 10:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Fly Free
i uddy Justin and accept ur own personal opinion and question -- have u thought that there might be a possibility that u might have the son feel alienated from the family and possibly just choose to cut off all contacts and how would u feel abt that q

in society generally men have a harder time confronting the fact there ARE men who do love other men as opposed to lesbians and generally the straight men finds lesbians alot more erotically attractive and oftentimes fantasize abt having the opportunity to sleep with lesbians

Honestly, I would be ashamed of him.

Lasza · 08-02-2003, 02:49 PM

Anyone have own story about coming out?

lilredridinhood · 09-01-2003, 10:30 AM

umm, erm.... after a year, they still don't know. i want to wait until after i graduate from high school to tell them...

wizard · 09-11-2003, 03:22 PM

I think you better tell your parents ASAP. The sooner the better. But of course you do know ur parents better than me.

javapride · 09-11-2003, 06:17 PM

redriding, don t be ashamed to tell them but don't be pressured at the same time do what u think is right and u can feel good abt urself in the due time!

lilredridinhood · 09-13-2003, 10:20 PM

I'm not ashamed of myself at all, almost my entire family knows that i'm bisexual, except my parents. They're hard-core christians, and they disagree with almost everything i say or do. For example, when I date outside of my race, they blow up, ground me, yell at me, give me the silence treatment, etc etcc etc, and that's just for a different skin color. They've expressed their feelings about the GLBT community, which is basically "ew." so that's why i'd rather wait until i'm 18, and out of their house when i tell them.

Tribaltalon · 09-25-2003, 07:06 PM

hmm i'm straight, i have always loved girls, i just wonder why so many deaf people are gay/lesbian? i wonder if its something in the mind that changes when they become deaf?

10-06-2003, 04:56 AM

I think deafness has nothing to do with people being gay or lesbian. I think, if one has accepted already that he is deaf, then it is easier to accept other identities such as being gay. Homosexual tendencies is not a learned thing but happens naturally as heterosexual tendencies do.

LiLyxLui · 01-28-2004, 07:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SilenceGold

Looks like it took a lot of courage for you to admit it to your friends on AllDeaf.

Proud of you!

:-) Thank you. I can't be LIE. :-P

Quote:

Originally Posted by Irish Devil Dog

Wow, Lily.. I unddy what u mean by marry a guy in the future etc... Good luck to urself in the future

Yeppie, Thank you :-P.. I hopefully .. They wont bust my ass off. hahaha

Mizzou · 01-28-2004, 10:39 AM

Yeppie, Thank you :-P.. I hopefully .. They wont bust my ass off. hahaha[/quote]

I would save my ass too!!

TweetyBird · 01-28-2004, 03:21 PM

Are u ready hear my story???

I was seprated my ex hubby in 2000.. so I moved back with my mom.. I started Stripper club (Monk's Club) on dec 24 2000.. I was waitress for order beers n other too.. Until end of Jan, i was break time on duty so i chatted with my few deaf friends came at my work.. then we talked, my ex boss was Bi n stripper too, she pulled me up on stage front the peep.. i told her no no i dont wanna be here.. so she say came on pls... then i say okay, danced on stage, she started unbutton my shirt off so i was oh shyt, i took my money tips out of my bra to my friend to hold for me.. then later, she took my bra off, i was soooooooooooooooooooooooo

do that.. jeez! then she lay down n wanna me crawl to her, my tongue lick to her belly tummy to chest that what i did.. then i put my boobs on a gurl's head.. hahaha! so after that i earned the money.. then my ex boss admitted me that she really like me LOTS!!! i was sooo

cuz of i dont know that she has crushed on me.. i asked her how long she like me since, she say when i started work n she saw me first time, she really like me but she know i was straight.. that why she pulled me up on stage.. i stopped job in march cuz of job was shut down and she missed me so much.. i never try anything with her nutthin..

in 2001, i got mixed feeling n confused myself at first time.. i dont uddy at myself.. later, i met a gurl from tenn, she is bi, she was married too.. she asked me if i am lesbo, i told her no i was straight.. then she say why not try with her? i was JEEZ!!! i was so confused n asked my close good friend guy who is gay.. i asked him abt it.. he say just follow ur feeling n ur heart.. i was okay.. i got think for 4 days, then i told her i go ahead n try see if i like it or not.. then 3 weeks later, i went tenn to met her.. we didnt do anything, until i got drunk, we did kiss lots but no sex... we d

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06-04-2003, 10:44 PM	#122 (permalink)
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bbnt King of all I see Join Date: Feb 2003 Location: Arizona Posts: 3,513	I understand what your saying it was the same way in my parents home that's why I left when I was 18. Now they live 15 min from me but I only go over there 6 or 7 times a year

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06-06-2003, 03:55 AM	#130 (permalink)
Irish Devil Dog ~Taken by my mystery hun~ Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Florida Posts: 1,464	PeaceRainbow, It's okay that you didnt know about this thread . I got your msg in other thread. Enjoy your read here and share experiences .

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PeaceRainbowGal Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 106	Hey Irishdog, Little help me and How I can make picture Right-top and I have to learn here my self Let me know anytime ~hug~

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06-10-2003, 10:54 PM	#138 (permalink)
Justin Sane Banned Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 909	If my daughter is lesbian, I wouldnt care cuz I know that she can get higher chance of getting a good partner. if my son was gay, its time to straighten the arrow. Male homosexuality is forbidden in my family. Before you start flaming me, I wanted to tell you that its my opinion.

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Lasza Premium Lurker Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: Mile High State Posts: 2,510	Anyone have own story about coming out?

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09-11-2003, 03:22 PM	#143 (permalink)
wizard supernatural power Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: N. California Posts: 154	I think you better tell your parents ASAP. The sooner the better. But of course you do know ur parents better than me.

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javapride Java's Big Island Life! Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: hawaii Posts: 6,509	redriding, don t be ashamed to tell them but don't be pressured at the same time do what u think is right and u can feel good abt urself in the due time!

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lilredridinhood DreameR Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Ht0wn, TX!:-D Posts: 616	I'm not ashamed of myself at all, almost my entire family knows that i'm bisexual, except my parents. They're hard-core christians, and they disagree with almost everything i say or do. For example, when I date outside of my race, they blow up, ground me, yell at me, give me the silence treatment, etc etcc etc, and that's just for a different skin color. They've expressed their feelings about the GLBT community, which is basically "ew." so that's why i'd rather wait until i'm 18, and out of their house when i tell them.

09-25-2003, 07:06 PM	#146 (permalink)
Tribaltalon Registered User Join Date: Sep 2003 Location: Houston, texas Posts: 14	hmm i'm straight, i have always loved girls, i just wonder why so many deaf people are gay/lesbian? i wonder if its something in the mind that changes when they become deaf?

10-06-2003, 04:56 AM	#147 (permalink)
kuifje75 Guest Posts: n/a	I think deafness has nothing to do with people being gay or lesbian. I think, if one has accepted already that he is deaf, then it is easier to accept other identities such as being gay. Homosexual tendencies is not a learned thing but happens naturally as heterosexual tendencies do.

01-28-2004, 10:39 AM	#149 (permalink)
Mizzou Where is my car ? Join Date: Apr 2003 Location: somewhere in Missouri Posts: 2,593	Yeppie, Thank you :-P.. I hopefully .. They wont bust my ass off. hahaha[/quote] I would save my ass too!!