Yeah I get that feling frequently... I'd love to have a little girl... but Adam has so much going on... I just can't take on another baby... Im waiting on my bff to have the lil girl for us!! Lol she'l be soooo spoiled!!!
just to let you know, it is healthy to have at least one close sibling close to his age. I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters. My oldest sister is hoh like me but she is about 7 years older than me. My hearing younger sister is who I was the closest. We always looked after each other. My point is, don't let Adam's problems stop you from having another child if you want another child.