there have been times for me too when it seems it would be so much easier to just date someone Deaf, but I also love my fiance. There are many times when she doesn't understand what I am trying to tell her, or when she doesn't understand what I need. She is trying though. We have both decided that we need to communicate better... which is still hard... because I am using sign as my main mode of communication now (or when ever I can), and she still uses spoken english... she gets frustrated when I sign too fast, or when she doesn't understand the connection for the words (like she doesn't understand why tomorrow is tomorrow, soon is soon, or yesterday is yesterday) but we are working through our issues... she talked about moving a while back, and i understood it as I didn't have a choice... but it was just a miscommunication. She was telling me that she wanted to move, not that she was going to move. When I told her my reasons for staying, she understood, and for now at least... we are staying put. I am having to understand that my being Deaf is not easy for her either... just as her being hearing isn't easy for me. We both have to work around our issues, and figure out how we will best communicate. I am very lucky that she is trying to learn sign, and that she understands why voice off time is good for me... most of the time at home we are voice off! Also, when ever we watch anything on TV, she understands why I need the captions... and she is now realizing the captions are good for her too. Our relationship is far from perfect, but we are both working on it.
And B.B. you don't deserve to feel frustrated all the time, neither does she. You need to either find a middle ground where you both are making effort to understand the view point of eachother... or you need to assess if the partnership (which is what it should be) is a good fit for the two of you.