Would U or Would Not?

[coloravalanche]

Let's discuss with our opinions...

If you haven't seen someone for a long time or several months...you send emails to someone once in awhile and did not get respond back.

If you decide to show up at someone's house...then someone open the door...yells at you then slammed door few times really loud...

Do you think it's mature or immature for hearing/deaf person to yell and slammed door at your face? (Even you haven't seen this person for long time...)

this is my opinion...if someone I haven't seen for long time or for awhile or is my enemy comes over my house...I don't yell or slam door...I either welcome someone into my home to talk or talk outside my porch to sit on the swing...

I am not rude person...I am very loyal, forgiving, happy to solve problem or listen...I think it is immature for not welcoming anyone to our home or outside...

Unless if it is RO or violence or else..that is different story...

Let's hear your opinion and discuss..

 

[lilylover72]

I didnt hear from a hearing friend for about 4 month. I tried call her but she avoid me several times. I had no idea what wrong with her. I stopped by her house because I had her books and supplies. She gave me dirty look after she opened the door. I said hi, i need return those to you. Her head were shaking like say no. I said they are not mine and they are yours. She didnt welcome me in. She just took her things and closed the door. I was so shocked. I didnt know what going on.

Later my husband told me that We went to Idaho from Colorado for vacation. My stepdaugther didnt want go with us because she didnt want miss school and she had plans with friends. I asked my friend to check her when we were gone. I didnt ask her to buy my stepdaughter a food because I took my stepdaugther to get foods what she wanted. My friend got so mad at my husband and my stepdaugther because she brought a food to my stepdaugther twice but my stepdaugther was not home. My husband told her that my stepdaugther can go what she want to and she dont have to wait for you to come to bring food that we didnt ask you for bring food. My friend got so pissed off. I never know about it until my husband told me what going on. I thought what fucking hell wrong with her that she didnt even want talk with me.

I would never turn anyone down if I am mad. I would tell them to come and talk to solve the problem.

 

[Catmandu]

Let's discuss with our opinions...

If you haven't seen someone for a long time or several months...you send emails to someone once in awhile and did not get respond back.

I'm sorry to hear. It sounds like this person does not want to be bothered.

If you decide to show up at someone's house...then someone open the door...yells at you then slammed door few times really loud...

This person obviously knows that you're pretty stubborn about seeking/hearing from this person. So, this person is trying to tell you - move on.

Do you think it's mature or immature for hearing/deaf person to yell and slammed door at your face? (Even you haven't seen this person for long time...)

For whatever reason you did, apparently you pissed this person off badly. I've had my share of moment like that when this person doesn't get a clue.

this is my opinion...if someone I haven't seen for long time or for awhile or is my enemy comes over my house...I don't yell or slam door...I either welcome someone into my home to talk or talk outside my porch to sit on the swing...

I respect your opinion and you're very kind when the situation is challenged. Not everyone is the same. Depending on the situation I either piss off someone or invite someone in to talk.

I am not rude person...I am very loyal, forgiving, happy to solve problem or listen...I think it is immature for not welcoming anyone to our home or outside...

You have your own opinion, but I really think you should leave this person alone. Move on and who knows this person might get in touch with you or not.

Unless if it is RO or violence or else..that is different story...

Then don't knock the door again because that would be really pushing it.

 

[coloravalanche]

I'm sorry to hear. It sounds like this person does not want to be bothered.


This person obviously knows that you're pretty stubborn about seeking/hearing from this person. So, this person is trying to tell you - move on.


For whatever reason you did, apparently you pissed this person off badly. I've had my share of moment like that when this person doesn't get a clue.


I respect your opinion and you're very kind when the situation is challenged. Not everyone is the same. Depending on the situation I either piss off someone or invite someone in to talk.


You have your own opinion, but I really think you should leave this person alone. Move on and who knows this person might get in touch with you or not.


Then don't knock the door again because that would be really pushing it.

thank you for sharing your opinion..

 

[coloravalanche]

I didnt hear from a hearing friend for about 4 month. I tried call her but she avoid me several times. I had no idea what wrong with her. I stopped by her house because I had her books and supplies. She gave me dirty look after she opened the door. I said hi, i need return those to you. Her head were shaking like say no. I said they are not mine and they are yours. She didnt welcome me in. She just took her things and closed the door. I was so shocked. I didnt know what going on.

Later my husband told me that We went to Idaho from Colorado for vacation. My stepdaugther didnt want go with us because she didnt want miss school and she had plans with friends. I asked my friend to check her when we were gone. I didnt ask her to buy my stepdaughter a food because I took my stepdaugther to get foods what she wanted. My friend got so mad at my husband and my stepdaugther because she brought a food to my stepdaugther twice but my stepdaugther was not home. My husband told her that my stepdaugther can go what she want to and she dont have to wait for you to come to bring food that we didnt ask you for bring food. My friend got so pissed off. I never know about it until my husband told me what going on. I thought what fucking hell wrong with her that she didnt even want talk with me.

I would never turn anyone down if I am mad. I would tell them to come and talk to solve the problem.

Yeah,,,I noticed that is most hearies do that...but deafies are more open..not all of them but most of them...

She shouldve communicated with you...Havent you send her thank you card for checking on your stepdaughter? It might will help?

 

[Heath]

I always either make somebody very happy or make somebody very angry so I would not worry about it too much. Sometimes , yes it can be puzzling but what can you do? Just move on.

 

[lilylover72]

Yeah,,,I noticed that is most hearies do that...but deafies are more open..not all of them but most of them...


She shouldve communicated with you...Havent you send her thank you card for checking on your stepdaughter? It might will help?

Well It was 3 year ago. I dont think I would contact with her because I rather leave her alone. I realized that she is not true friend. I dont need a false friend.

Some deaf would yell and close the door, stab someone's backs, gossip, etc like hearing people does. Trust me. I married to a hearing man. I realized that Deaf and Hearing people do same thing as being human! My ex is deaf, We used social with deaf people for years.

I dont need a false friends or many friends. I have 2 or 3 friend that is enough for me. I know many ladies but we dont hang out.

 

[SherryCherish]

I wouldn't feel comfortable to confront a enemy's house or a enemy come to my house. Unless pop into each other or socialize place, I would not like to be bothered, and like to move on with life. Unless if that person want to solve plm than bring up the plms. I would prolly go ahead the flow to forget it, but wouldn't like to be friends again like used to. But hang once a while.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

Let's discuss with our opinions...

Here I am.

If you haven't seen someone for a long time or several months...you send emails to someone once in awhile and did not get respond back.

Depend on many different things. I would make list on here.... I´m here to answer your question.

Accord your question:
I would accept and move on my life and leave them alone.

If you decide to show up at someone's house...then someone open the door...yells at you then slammed door few times really loud...

No, I would not show up at someone´s house. Why should I? They have good reason for not response my email. I accept and move on my life.

Do you think it's mature or immature for hearing/deaf person to yell and slammed door at your face? (Even you haven't seen this person for long time...)

Accord your question: Depend on many reasons.

I feel it has nothing do with mature or immature what a person make to upset someone but it could be something reason to make a person anger. It look like that a person felt being stalking and being bother by someone all the time and want to be leave alone.

Why can´t someone move on their life and leave a person alone when someone know that a person has no interesting with them.

this is my opinion...if someone I haven't seen for long time or for awhile or is my enemy comes over my house...I don't yell or slam door...I either welcome someone into my home to talk or talk outside my porch to sit on the swing...

Depend on many different reasons...

If I got an email from an emeny, I haven´t see for a long time. Depend what email written... I would ignore if immature emails comes, I would answer if friendly emails comes, or solve with them if they want to solve issues with me. If there´re not solution then leave them alone and say to myself that what they think is their loss.

If someone turn on my house unexpectly which they KNEW via emails I don´t want to do anything with them. I would ask them in polite way to go and tell them to make new appoinement next time because I has no time for today.

I am not rude person...I am very loyal, forgiving, happy to solve problem or listen...I think it is immature for not welcoming anyone to our home or outside...

Sure, I´m a forgive person and happy to solve the problem with anyone and being good listener but your question is different because a person feel being bothered and stalking by someone which is a different story.

Accord your question:
Well, I would say that it´s rude of someone to come to your house which they KNEW you don´t want to do anything with them.

Unless if it is RO or violence or else..that is different story...

Yes

Let's hear your opinion and discuss..

I hope my opinion satisfy your question.

 

[Liebling:-)))]

I dont think I would contact with her because I rather leave her alone. I realized that she is not true friend. I dont need a false friend.

I second that.

Some deaf would yell and close the door, stab someone's backs, gossip, etc like hearing people does. Trust me. I married to a hearing man. I realized that Deaf and Hearing people do same thing as being human! My ex is deaf, We used social with deaf people for years.

Yes, that´s right. Hearing and Deaf are the same! I work at hearing world and learn to know about them... Yes, they are the same! I see no difference on them.

I dont need a false friends or many friends. I have 2 or 3 friend that is enough for me. I know many ladies but we dont hang out.

True, I pick few true and close friends who cares about me.