Bebonang
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ah okAnyways please know, I really don't think there is one specific answer for HA and CI for deaf or HOH individuals. I base most of my answers on what I would do if i had a profoundly deaf child... I would learn ASL (well I am already learning lol) for my child because that is what I believe would be best for a deaf child. I just can not support CI's for babies, no matter if the window of opportunity is when they are young its just not fair to make a child go through a surgery that is unnecessary. But HA I think are different because you can put them on, or take them off whenever you want. But if my kid hates wearing them, and can communicate with sign language, then why not just let him/her sign? communication is communication... doesn't matter how you do it, just matters that you do... I am not romanticizing deafness, I have one deaf friend who loves being deaf and who spends a lot of her time teaching hearing people ASL, and another one who wants to be hearing. Its different for everybody, I understand that. This is why I stress individualism and letting the deaf person decide, because ONLY THEY know how they feel!
That is exactly what I am trying to explain. It is all up to the deaf or Deaf individuals who choose to wear hearing aid or CI later on. But if they were being force to go into mainstream school with no sign language and had to deal with speech and lipreading expecting them to be involve in the hearing world. They are wrong. It is really difficult for us having to understand what hearing people say with no sign language interpreters or lipreading which we fail at trying to understand them. They get us very frustrated that there has to be a solution to make communication beneficial and comfortable to communicate with the help of sign language. Sign language really does work better than trying to lipread or trying to listen (I hate that word). That is my strong feeling.
Anyways please know, I really don't think there is one specific answer for HA and CI for deaf or HOH individuals. I base most of my answers on what I would do if i had a profoundly deaf child... I would learn ASL (well I am already learning lol) for my child because that is what I believe would be best for a deaf child. I just can not support CI's for babies, no matter if the window of opportunity is when they are young its just not fair to make a child go through a surgery that is unnecessary. But HA I think are different because you can put them on, or take them off whenever you want. But if my kid hates wearing them, and can communicate with sign language, then why not just let him/her sign? communication is communication... doesn't matter how you do it, just matters that you do... I am not romanticizing deafness, I have one deaf friend who loves being deaf and who spends a lot of her time teaching hearing people ASL, and another one who wants to be hearing. Its different for everybody, I understand that. This is why I stress individualism and letting the deaf person decide, because ONLY THEY know how they feel!