WOMAN DISCOVERS HUSBAND IS A SHE! After 17 years...

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A transsexual whose 17-year marriage to an heiress was nullified when the wife discovered her husband was a woman is not legally a "parent" of her 14-year-old daughter born from donor sperm, the Court of Appeal ruled today.
The female-to-male transsexual, referred to in court as Mr J, is now in law a man under the 2004 Gender Recognition Act and can lawfully marry a woman if he wishes.

But three appeal judges held that, because at the time of his "marriage" to Mrs C in 1977 he was still a woman, he had no parental rights.

The law required that when a woman conceived and gave birth through artificial insemination by donor (AID), the other party to the marriage must be a man in order to qualify as a parent, the judges said.

Mr J was still a woman when the child was conceived by AID in 1991 and, since there was no legal marriage, he could not be "a party" to it.

Mr J, born with gender dysmorphia, underwent hormone treatment and had breasts removed before, at the age of 30, he met and married Mrs C, then aged 20 and from a wealthy background.

He concealed his true gender from her for 17 years, using a home-made part of the anatomy for sex. At a Court of Appeal hearing in 1996, Mr J failed in a bid for a share of the marriage wealth, including a £400,000 home.

At that hearing, Lord Justice Ward described the marriage as a "travesty" and said that many people would find it quite astonishing that in 17 years of life together Mrs C did not realise she was living with a woman.


Wife 'didn't realise husband was a woman'
 
must be crazy marriage they got there without knowledge!
 
Without wife's knowledge for 17 years? It's too bad... It hurts trusts relationship.
 
He betrayed her. Plain and simple. There's no honesty in marriage when he held his true gender from her. Why marry her in the first place when it is supposed to be based on honesty for the sake of love ? Hmm ?
 
It saddens me to see that the truth was being held back but I can't help wonder how the heck did the wife not know about it for 17 years? I mean 17 years is too long to hold the "secret" inside. Yeah, I can see some people would hold it longer than that which is not so great.
 
Meh. Transsexuals should be honest with their partners. It's just common courtesy.

Steel X said:
hmm wonder if they are lesbians now?

Under the law mentioned in the article, no, they are not lesbians, as Mr. J is legally male regardless of his birth sex.
 
my first thought was this some jerry springer shit.


I wonder too how she could of not known her husband was a woman ... she/he must be very manly looking
 
ella said:
my first thought was this some jerry springer shit.


I wonder too how she could of not known her husband was a woman ... she/he must be very manly looking

If a person is treated with cross-gender hormones, they will rather quickly develop the secondary sex characteristics of the opposite gender... A male-to-female transsexual being treated with estrogen will develop breasts and a more feminine figure if she's still young and her bones aren't fused. A female-to-male transsexual being treated with testosterone will start growing facial hair and his voice will deepen.

After a few years, it's very hard or nigh impossible to tell a transsexual from a person who was born that sex.
 
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