What "Kind" Of Friends?....

Catmandu said:
Someone who understands me
Someone who gives me space
Someone who respects me for who I am
Someone who doesn't under estimate my intelligence
Someone who I won't feel intimidated
Someone who doesn't compete with me
Someone who knows how to have fun
Someone who actually have PMS and show it! :D
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I exact like ur listing
happened to me, lady visited to chat with me and her kids to play with mine and I thought she was my good friend so "help urself" to pick a drink in my kitchen she saw black caviar there and talked to other friends like yuk, blah negative I found out and disappointed I wish as best friend she would understand my culture, my cooking, my way of who I am, now I have hardly to invite anybody in my house even if new bf :aw:
 
I have few friends that i can trust.. I really have alot of friends but i don't consider them as my good friends.. i just know them from the school and i don't bother them to have a chat.. they are bunch on the drugs which i don't intersted to. Mostly of my friend alway think life isn't important for thier future and it's turn me off big time.

I don't take any friends who take too much of favorism or taking sides.. I would rather to involded somebody just listen and be own line with somebody else.

Fly Free is my only best friend i could count on and others i couldn't share so more stuff.. i would do with my VERY few friends depend with issues coming up.
 
I think I'm really easy to get along with but only to certain people that are really judgemental, I'm not for it at all. My #1 priority as having a "good" friendship is TRUST. If ya'll know how to respect me, I'll respect back.. if not.. back off... :deal:

I agree with most of you guys about what kind of friendship you want.. that's exactly what I want too, especially Catmandu's post.. I gotta agree with hers.. lol
 
Those of you have good listing and better think! I like people who is same personal and humor online and offline. I do not like anyone online who is fool themselves. You met me as quiet and shy person. I happen talk with them several times but not always because I seem being busy more than anyone but I am willing to answer or chatting.

Not that much aware about friends lifestyle and willing to learn. I am not looking for friends that has attuide problem or personal unfit to me. I know who is my best friends and very alert about friends, too.
 
i agree with ya all

somebody with a respect
somebody who understand
somebody who don't need to be snobby on me for no reason
 
For myself that i expect this person who respect me for who I am, accept me for who I am, also the person whom i can trust and understands and have better bonds with each other. For now I am beginning to have a new best friend ( my weiner :D)
 
Ive been blessed to be surrounded by friends who remain at my side for years and years. Some go back to age 5 and most go back to college days. I dont make new friends easily because I am already overwhelmed with being a single mother of 2 young tweens and juggling a 24/7 job. I try hard to make new friends but it is not easy.

What is important to me is that my friends would understand and support my Fibromyalgia because it has caused me to lose many friends (well they werent real friends anyway) while I was having years of flareups. I couldnt make it to social events or see anyone while I was in pain. These days my real friends understand my limitations and dont get upset if I call and say I cant make it at last minute due to my pains. They dont flip out. They patiently wait for when I am able.

Last weekend 5 of my good girlfriends went to the beach for 3 nights. I couldnt go because my daughters have basketball games. THey simply understood because I dont have a husband waiting at home to watch my girls if I wanted to go fun places with my girlfriends.

I am truly blessed for these who are already my real friends - I know it will be hard to find NEW real good friends but quality counts, not quantity :)
 
FreeWoman77 said:
I exact like ur listing
happened to me, lady visited to chat with me and her kids to play with mine and I thought she was my good friend so "help urself" to pick a drink in my kitchen she saw black caviar there and talked to other friends like yuk, blah negative I found out and disappointed I wish as best friend she would understand my culture, my cooking, my way of who I am, now I have hardly to invite anybody in my house even if new bf :aw:
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Are you serious, Freewoman? I would be soo curious and ask you TONS of questions about your Russian culture! I would love to try out black caviar and all that - it is fascinating to learn about another culture. I jsut finished reading a biography on a Russian dancer - Rudolph Neveryu (cant spell it!).

Forget that lady - she is ignorant and not open minded. I grew up in a Russian Old Believer community so have always been open minded about other cultures, especially Russian.

Do come down to Portland and let me try black caviar!!!! :cheers:
 
Catmandu said:
Someone who understands me
Someone who gives me space
Someone who respects me for who I am
Someone who doesn't under estimate my intelligence
Someone who I won't feel intimidated
Someone who doesn't compete with me
Someone who knows how to have fun
Someone who actually have PMS and show it! :D
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Dont forget another one - Someone who would VP with you and let you and her be drunk to overcome shyness :D :D
 
FreeWoman77 said:
i see many of u like humor, what if person has no humor but nice person and is looking for a friend :(
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That is fine as long as the person is nice but I am more comfortable around people who have a good sense of humor.
For example I am watching a very funny movie with someone who doesn't have a sense of humor I get to laugh at the movie but this person doesn't. I don't find it fun to be laughing by myself while the other person isn't :)
 
FreeWoman77 said:
I have to admit last 1999 I borrowed or loan from my best friend since my 3 grade and her 9 or 10 grade :) in my home country, Ukraine, some money I havent had a job that time I needed to get to Embassy of USA in other country for a visa she was willing to help me and I paid her back what best friend for BE THERE and TRUSTWORTH. Now she is in France and me in USA we do miss dearly havent seen for 7 yrs this April :(

here some new person if asked me ,ofc, I wouldn't loan either, and different cultures there's money tree and other they may loan, but if my best friend is here (i really wish!) I would do to her :)
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Off Topic . Are you an Ukrainian? as am Half Ukrianian
 
CutePommie said:
Off Topic . Are you an Ukrainian? as am Half Ukrianian
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Yes she is an Ukrainian.


FreeWoman77, I still have AIM from one of my online friends who is also Ukrainian and married to American and live in America, too. She want to contact with Ukraniains because she miss languages... I just thought about you... If you are interesting then PM me.

I have other deaf Ukrainian friend who live in town which it´s 10 minutes away from my hometown. (We will talk about this in PM or AIM)...
 
I would like to have friends who are open mind, honset and straightforward people with warm heart, loving and good listener... easy to talk with... friendly and caring personality... fun... no matter what but mainly important is great personality...

I like people who accept what I am... and admit their mistake and apology...

I´m neutral person and tried to advise and help people when they have problem and tried to make them peace each other... I admit that I know that I´m peacemaker... (I know I´m soft sometimes...)
 
FreeWoman77 said:
I exact like ur listing
happened to me, lady visited to chat with me and her kids to play with mine and I thought she was my good friend so "help urself" to pick a drink in my kitchen she saw black caviar there and talked to other friends like yuk, blah negative I found out and disappointed I wish as best friend she would understand my culture, my cooking, my way of who I am, now I have hardly to invite anybody in my house even if new bf :aw:
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:hug: I do understand how you feel because I've been through the same thing myself, over and over. You just have to socialize and find their hobbies and interests. It just takes time to find friends with similiar interests. Why not join Coffee Hour and meet some people there? Just a suggestion.
 
Gemtun said:
Dont forget another one - Someone who would VP with you and let you and her be drunk to overcome shyness :D :D
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:hug: *runs to liquor store*
 
Liebling:-))) said:
Can you care to explain me what PMS is... ??? :D
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I im'd one gal to say hello and she said, I have pms and I'm in wicked bad mood. I said, get over it and talk to me. :D It's good to talk and get it out. Sometimes I make joke about it and they crack up. It does bring the friendship a lot closer. :)
 
*Yells to Cat to get me a Classic Coke while your'e there!*
 
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