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Liza said:I agree with Kootchie: Don't take the bait if you know others are trying to piss you off, or if their ideas are so different it makes you want to snap at them. As a friend once said, "Be a lady (or gentleman) and ignore it (the bait)!" I have taken that to heart ever since.
Try to not "point" fingers at your opponent in a debate or discussion that starts with "You" in a sentence: "Oh, you always say that because you are an idiot!" Personal attacks are NOT appreciated and they are always UGLY.
Agree to disagree if it comes down to that! It works, in my opinion.
Liza, she also made it a bit more clear of what I was trying to say.
- DONT TAKE THE BAIT!
- Sentences starting with "You" can be such an ugly thing!
- Agree to disagree!
And to repeat what Y said:
Self moderation is when members are able to make posts and keep peace, and solve problems without the government involvment (the moderators). This one is very important to keep in mind.
Thanks for your posts everyone!