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I just wanted to see what other's thinking about this situation.I've told some of you guys that a friend of mine was coming down from Tenneesee to visit a few weeks... Well, she apparenty asked me and my sisters if we wanted to go back home with her for a few weeks, it kinda shocked me for a moment because she isn't that kind of person who is always wanting company.. I sat there and kept on thinking about it and the more I was thinking about it, I don't want to go becasue I was talking to my mother about this she said she didn't really want us to go, because she said that she (friend) was going to set ground rules..... "Im like Oh no your not setting ground rules,Im a adult and I can take care of myself, this is my thinking but of course out of respect I will help clean the dishes and crap..." But puh please about setting ground rules, she is a single person who is living by herself in a huge house, nothing to clean up... But only dishes! This is really getting to me because I don't like the idea of "setting the ground rules" when Im almost 22~
I think it's bullshit and it should go the same to her when she comes to this household and she needs to follow the ground rules as we set them~ ususally we don't got ground rules, if things got to be picked up everyone will pinch in ya know? I think its bullshit how all sudden she thinks she is going to set them!
Also~ to be quite honest she is a very boring person to deal with but she is a sweet person tho! She likes to sleep all the time and I don't like staying in the house all the time~ I like to go out also!
Im thinking about not going because I don't like the idea of this~ but what you think??
 
Jeez! If you don't feel comfortable with it, then don't go. Just tell your friend you have plans (just cover it up, I would do the same thing) and it would be less problem I guess.
 
If it uncomfortable then dont go. Suggest her to find a hobby and get out of the house.
 
maybe she realize that she need a company ?

depend on what were her list of rules look like ?

best thing is to visit for a brief weekend to
figure out.
 
if you are not comfortable with her rules etc then dont go.. i agree she need to find a hobby and do something fun other than sleeping all times.

but you know like here, my rules is no smoking.. no drugs.. no drinking.. etc.. if you dont like it then dont be here! other than that.. fine.. :)

did she said what kind of rules ? i wonder?? i am real curious..
 
i dunno depend on rules etc
what are the rules ?
:dunno:
 
I just wanted to let you guys know that she left today and we didn't expect her to stay almost 2 weeks, she basically stepped on everyone's toes this time. Thinks that she can run this household and etc. She had the nerve to tell my mother that she couldn't handle me so tell me what that suppose to mean? I was like that was harsh and I can take care of myself and don't need no one taking care of me... *laughing* I got a rash, I told some of you guys that I thought I got sun poison which it isnt' because I was reading on the internet about the information about it. I know what it feels and it makes you sick along with it. This time I don't feel sick which Im thankful for. I think it's the dog she has that causes the rash on me, I hate her dog to be honest with you guys. He pissed and crapped all over the damn house when she didn't even take him out or clean his mess up.. We got babies in this household. Now since she left we're scrubbing the house and the carpets, ~Stem cleaning~ Im just taking a break and it's 12am still cleaning since the time she left. She got the nerve to say that after I spend $80 on her?? That just point blank tells me that she is using me, My mother is VERY disppointed in her and doesn't look forward for her next visit. No one doesn't come in this house thinking they can run it. I think it was very rude.
 
If feel uncomfortable then go to Columbus in Ohio :)
 
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