Deaffy
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Last year I came up to ohio to visit my family due to hurricane gustav when I lived in Louisiana. Upon my arrival I was informed that my younger brother was homeless because my mother had kicked him and his gf out of the house due to their drug abuse of oxycontin ( sp). While up here visiting I searched and searched for them and finally found where they were at. They were staying in a dank roach infest motel, It broke my heart to see him living like that. I sent my wife a text asking her how she would feel if I hired my brother to work for our Landscape company. She agreed , So I offerd him and his gf to move down with me on my way back home after the storm and he would make $40,000 a year helping me run the company and they could live with me and my wife untill they got enough cash to move out.
I drove us nearly 2k miles down to LA and he worked with me for 3 days started complaining about the heat and that he wanted to go back home. ( I believe his withdrawls from oxy was the culprit) Well needless to say I was not a happy camper) and i said a few choice words to him about how he needs to start working his GF was 6 months pregnant. I had bought him a bus ticket to move back home to moms since mom found out she was pregnant she was willing to let them move back in and give it one more try. Once the baby was born My brother never tried to get a job stayed a recluse in the bedroom while his gf went from job to job making just enough money to get their next fix. My mother finally got fed up kicked them both out yet once again but my mother kept my nephew to live with her he was just a tiny lil fella.
A few months Later me and my wife went through a seperation that resulted in a divorce So i decided to move back to ohio. When I got her I searched for my brother again and found him in another hotel. HE said he wasnt sure where they were going to stay the following week so I payed for them for another weeks rent at their hotel and I said to him " dude you have got to get your shit together and get a job the family cant keep helping you out moms taking care of ur son and this is the time of her life where she doesnt need to be raising a kid. you need to get a job and i dont care where its at even fast food restraunt or shoveling cow shit it doesnt matter u need to make money" I bought them that weeks rent and $40 in grocerys.
Here is where I am really just unbelieveable upset. My mom lets him come to her house once a week to eat and see the baby. I decided to stop over and say hi to him since I havent seen him in awhile. I walked into the room and said hey man hows it going... He shrugged it off. I said I finally got my surgery this past week ( cochlear Implant) HE didnt look at me or say a thing. I finally said you know what man your a friggen loser im sick of it you think you are too good for your deaf brother. Well remember this your deaf brother offerd you a life you declined. your deaf brother helped you to keep a roof over your head even tho you had screwd him over before.. well your deaf brother will no longer be helping you about. I said you know... I have a physical " handicap" and am able to work and do what is needed to survive in this world.. ( WHATS YOUR EXCUSE) and walked out.
Sorry for the rant but IM pretty tiffed off at how he acts around me. And just wanted to get this off my chest
I drove us nearly 2k miles down to LA and he worked with me for 3 days started complaining about the heat and that he wanted to go back home. ( I believe his withdrawls from oxy was the culprit) Well needless to say I was not a happy camper) and i said a few choice words to him about how he needs to start working his GF was 6 months pregnant. I had bought him a bus ticket to move back home to moms since mom found out she was pregnant she was willing to let them move back in and give it one more try. Once the baby was born My brother never tried to get a job stayed a recluse in the bedroom while his gf went from job to job making just enough money to get their next fix. My mother finally got fed up kicked them both out yet once again but my mother kept my nephew to live with her he was just a tiny lil fella.
A few months Later me and my wife went through a seperation that resulted in a divorce So i decided to move back to ohio. When I got her I searched for my brother again and found him in another hotel. HE said he wasnt sure where they were going to stay the following week so I payed for them for another weeks rent at their hotel and I said to him " dude you have got to get your shit together and get a job the family cant keep helping you out moms taking care of ur son and this is the time of her life where she doesnt need to be raising a kid. you need to get a job and i dont care where its at even fast food restraunt or shoveling cow shit it doesnt matter u need to make money" I bought them that weeks rent and $40 in grocerys.
Here is where I am really just unbelieveable upset. My mom lets him come to her house once a week to eat and see the baby. I decided to stop over and say hi to him since I havent seen him in awhile. I walked into the room and said hey man hows it going... He shrugged it off. I said I finally got my surgery this past week ( cochlear Implant) HE didnt look at me or say a thing. I finally said you know what man your a friggen loser im sick of it you think you are too good for your deaf brother. Well remember this your deaf brother offerd you a life you declined. your deaf brother helped you to keep a roof over your head even tho you had screwd him over before.. well your deaf brother will no longer be helping you about. I said you know... I have a physical " handicap" and am able to work and do what is needed to survive in this world.. ( WHATS YOUR EXCUSE) and walked out.
Sorry for the rant but IM pretty tiffed off at how he acts around me. And just wanted to get this off my chest