If a boyfriend wasn't open to adoption that was a deal breaker for me. Discussed it with my husband before we married.
Any particular reason, or just because?
To me, there's a difference between screening for serious medical issues and screening for other reasons. Personally, I don't like sex selection except in the case of X-linked genetic problems.
What's the difference, and how do you define "serious medical issues"? Especially given increasing tolerance for biological differences among people (such as deafness or blindness, to mention something situationally appropriate) and newer and better medical procedures and technologies making fewer and fewer diseases and medical issues as "serious" as they would have been in older times.
Nor do I. Practically speaking, how would you implement that in law? Or would you?
In a book I read recently about adoption ("Baby, We Were Meant for Each Other") the author said that Asia is missing 90 million girl babies that you would expect should have been born, but who have been aborted due mainly to China's one-child policy. 90 million. The mind boggles.
I read about this too. Societal-wide problems like this are the main concern that I personally have with allowing genetic selection and manipulation. The processes used aren't the problem and shouldn't be attacked, but on a practical level, homogenizing the gene pool is a very poor survival strategy for any given society and species.
And before you ask, nope, I haven't thought of a solution to that problem yet. The subject doesn't come up very often, so I've not thought about problems like this nearly as much as other things.
IVF does not include gene manipulation and is not used to increase the probability of certain characteristics in the offspring. It is not used to create "designer children". IVF and the manipulation used to create children that comply with parental desires for specific characteristics are two very different subjects.
Yet!
Science is a fun tool that way - IVF currently is used for treating infertility problems. However, the process itself is a perfect starting point for genetic selection and genetic manipulation, because the actually invasive process (implantation) happens after the selection, rather than prior to the selection (as would be the case with selective abortions).
So bringing up IVF gets down to the moral conundrum of genetic selection/manipulation by allowing for a process that itself isn't immoral (unless you're an extremist who thinks there's a magical spirit that is conjured up the instant any sperm and egg form a zygote.
as Jillio said - IVF is nothing like pre-natal testing nor genetic manipulation. They cannot "select" certain traits to make baby like ordering a custom-made product. IVF is a medical procedure for those with fertility issue. It is exactly same as natural procreation. Doctors simply inject sperms into vagina and then hope for best.
I think this was corrected, but no. They form the zygote in a lab, and can do some genetic testing on the created zygote long before implantation, so selection and manipulation is certainly possible.
In genetic manipulation - there's almost a guarantee that you will get what you ordered. That is crossing the line, in case you're wondering where do we draw a line in this issue.
Not even close. Developmental biology is a
hugely complex field, and there is absolutely no "guarantee" than any particular combination of genes will get you any specific trait or sets of traits. The most it will do is increase the likelihood of certain traits developing, which can just as easily be done by much more traditional parenting techniques such as food choice selection (feed your baby significantly more beef than other meats, and I guarantee that will have some sort of effect on how their personality and any number of other traits develop; it's just highly unethical to design scientific experiments which have proper controls to determine what actions have what effects down the road, so it's all a bit of a crapshoot. Genetics is like that, too.