yes i have lost a best friend .. she asked me to be her maid of honor at her wedding which i was glad to accept. but guess what?? 2 weeks ebfore the wedding.. she had the gall to send me a E-greeting card and told me she choose someone else and apologized to me. She didnt give me reasons why? that hurt me so badly.. we did have few heated arguements then we didnt keep in touch for almost 3 yrs.. finally she sent me email and asked me for my forgivness. i forgived her as God said to but we are not best friends ever again.. Its different now cuz i cant trust her for what she did to me? later I found out reasons why and it is plainly stupid! but what is done and too late. She should have thought of that in first place, duh at her! jeez...