Oceanbreeze is right.

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I told my counselor about O.B. and she said
that O.B. is right, I have to be myself.

I told her that I read so many negative things
on this forum and other news...
And I feel I want to be silly to runaway from it all.

And by being silly, I overreact and cause drama
and said crazy silly things...
Because I can't handle negative well.

So, I will try to be myself...
and do what Oceanbreeze, Angel, Meg, and Cheri and others
are doing...
And just show people my good side, and be charming, have good
personality, and all.

Now I get it, Oceanbreeze, I am no more being a troll from now on..
 
Miss*Pinocchio,

The important thing is to be yourself and not to be someone that they want you to be....You're a good person, don't let others tell you that you aren't....I've heard from time to time about others telling me to grow a thick skin, I'm not going to change for who I am, I put my heart on my sleeve and I like being myself and for who I am, if others don't like it, then they can either hate me or like me, I don't care....

There is nothing wrong with being silly, You have no idea how many times I have laughed at your threads or posts, you are funni girl, and I enjoy most of your threads and posts....I have no problem with you, I rather to get along with everyone then picking on someone all the time just cause someone posted or create a thread that may find them silly, but to me, I respect you and the others as well, no matter what the thread is about....I can ignore it and move on to something that may find me interesting....

Who said you're the only one who create dramas?...I admit I have my share of drama so as for others too...We're not perfect and we are due for a few mistakes from time to time, there no reason for others to jump all over you and try to make something you're not....Just keep being who you are and be postive and ignore the negatives! :hug:
 
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Miss*Pinocchio,

The important thing is to be yourself and not to be someone that they want you to be....You're a good person, don't let others tell you that you aren't....I've heard from time to time about others telling me to grow a thick skin, I'm not going to change for who I am, I put my heart on my sleeve and I like being myself and for who I am, if others don't like it, then they can either hate me or like me, I don't care....

There is nothing wrong with being silly, You have no idea how many times I have laughed at your threads or posts, you are funni girl, and I enjoy most of your threads and posts....I have no problem with you, I rather to get along with everyone then picking on someone all the time just cause someone posted or create a thread that may find them silly, but to me, I respect you and the others as well, no matter what the thread is about....I can ignore it and move on to something that may find me interesting....

Who said you're the only one who create dramas?...I admit I have my share of drama so as for others too...We're not perfect and we are due for a few mistakes from time to time, there no reason for others to jump all over you and try to make something you're not....Just keep being who you are and be postive and ignore the negatives! :hug:
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how true! u are right abt that... :D
 
I agree with Angel too! Just be yourself, Miss Pinocchio. Let people know the real you. You're not the only one creating drama...I've seen some of ADers creating dramas too.
 
I'm glad you could finally see what I was trying to say to you. It really does one no good to be something they aren't. Just try being yourself once awhile, Miss P. You might find people will start to like you, or hell, if nothing else they will respect you inspite of things.
 
Finally! You realized who u really are! I hope you will start fixing yourself up and make things better!
 
:shock: You mentioned my name there? I dont know what that really means but I can only think it means that you think I am always being myself. If so, yup, it s better to be loved by 1 true friend than liked by 1000 fake friends if I try to be someone else.

Being true to yourself can get difficult...it means you cannot please anyone but at least you can live with dignity and pride. Let them call me bitch or sweet...what matters to me is that I know I am being myself. Let others interpret me in their own ways. But if people create dramas or give me 2 different answers/stories, I don't respect them.

No one can take your identity away from you, MissP. You are unique and we all know that.

Keep your chin up and you will dazzle us once you start being yourself. We all appreciate true people even if we may not disagree with them or whatnot.
 
Just be youself here on AD.. like I have been myself here on AD- no sugarcoating, just straight talk... Ms P, I'm glad that you are starting to notice what you did on AD and are trying to change whiich I like about you. I know that I hate dramas but that are what some people are.
 
Eh :confused:

I am kinda lost here, about this thread. But, I agree with a few peeps here, that says just be yourself, don't let others tell you how to be someone you aren't.

It's not about being popluar in here. It's about being yourself, If they don't like you, that's their problem not yours. ;)
 
it about the time you listen to OceanBreeze's advice. SO hope you improve your way and you will see lot of changes from other people toward you I promise you that you will get lot of positive feelings from us AS if you change your way.

good luck!

:cool:
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
I told my counselor about O.B. and she said
that O.B. is right, I have to be myself.

I told her that I read so many negative things
on this forum and other news...
And I feel I want to be silly to runaway from it all.

And by being silly, I overreact and cause drama
and said crazy silly things...
Because I can't handle negative well.

So, I will try to be myself...
and do what Oceanbreeze, Angel, Meg, and Cheri and others
are doing...
And just show people my good side, and be charming, have good
personality, and all.

Now I get it, Oceanbreeze, I am no more being a troll from now on..
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MissP,

Too often, people use the message board environment to gain recognition or even popularity from others. Half the time, they perhaps don't fully believe or understand what they're commenting on. It's a proven fact that some folks will say what they think they want others to see, mainly because they want to "shine."

You and I may not concur on much of anything at all, but I am in complete agreement with your initial post. Contrary to popular belief, you are a human being just like the rest of us. You need not bend over backwards or shortchange your true personality because you think others want you to. If it's more your nature to be frivolous and carefree, then do it.

We all have our own issues, MissP...all of us have something that we're positive others hate, but we can't let them stop us from exercising our true personalities.
 
I was like :confused: when I read your post, Miss *P because the counsellors's job is not allow to judge their patients liket this. I can't image that counsellor tell you that OB is right about your behaviour. :confused: I know it because I often visit to therapies/counsellors. They are not allow to judge their patients for this but give tips/advise etc.

This is an offence what the counsellor said to you that OB is right about your behavior. :eek: Their job task to help you, not judge.



Sure, I know that it's good that anyone tell you about your personality then you know what they think about you then you do is LOOK yourself.

All what you do is learn to respect about yourself and also LOOK yourself to positive, not do what everyone tell you.

Remember that every have different personalities.
 
Not to put a damper on this "new-found" endeavor, P, but weren't you really being yourself before this and now wanna put some spit n' polish on your personna?
 
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