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Hi Everyone :)

My name is Amanda and I am hearing. I am taking ASL 101 at my college and i recently came across this girl who is apart of the ASL program & she is deaf. I have never been attracted to girls at all, but there is something about her. I know that she is gay I'm just not sure how to communicate with her because I am just learning ASL. I am pretty sure that she is interested in me because when we had our class break i went outside to smoke, and while i was standing outside she came out and smiled and waved. I couldn't help but look at her every now and then in class- not sure if she noticed. When class was over everyone else exited the main door, but i went out the back exit and when she saw that i was going out the back exit she followed i guess because when i made it down the stairs outside i turned to look to see who was behind me and it was her. She and I both smiled and waved Bye to each other. I don't know if I should wait for her to try and approach me & communicate with Me, or if I should approach her. I was wondering if people who are deaf read body language better than hearing people? Will She and I be able to communicate? What do you think I should do? PLEASE don't judge- I've never been attracted to a girl- only her & I just have this strong feeling like I shouldn't ignore it.

Thanks : )
 
Well, if she is just now learning ASL, she is in the same boat you are. You could write notes until you are both better at sign.
 
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mandag7986 said:
No, im sorry i wasnt clear lol she's in there to help us- shes like a tutor
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Well in that case she has a lot of experience communicating with hearing students, and if she likes you, she will be willing to help you and make extra effort for you to learn.
 
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Soo should I wait for her to come up and communicate to me.. or should I try and communicate with her?
 
mandag7986 said:
Soo should I wait for her to come up and communicate to me.. or should I try and communicate with her?
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Well, Travis said write it down. It is the best way to communicate.

I said if she likes you she will make extra effort.

So from the two of us, I guess we think you should just write her a note and see what she wants to do.
 
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Bottesini said:
Well, Travis said write it down. It is the best way to communicate.

I said if she likes you she will make extra effort.

So from the two of us, I guess we think you should just write her a note and see what she wants to do.
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oh.... this.... same old question we see couple times a month.

well both of you hot? cute?
 
Jiro.. easy, man... ya need to dail down a bit on that.. lol oh boy..

Anyways, Amanda.. if ya think ya should go ask this girl, do it and see how it goes.. cant hurt to try ok? Hope it goes well enough for ya....
 
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