I agree. Sue high, aim low.
One thing I'd like to disagree on is the amount of the lawsuit. I do not believe that 75k is asking too much. There are a boatload of frivilous lawsuits out there, but I'd classify this one as legit. The kid could have long term effects from it, from organ failure to a variety of other things. Adults bodies handle alcohol much differently than a 5 year olds.
Everyone here at AD was extremely outraged (and rightfully so) with the other story about the uncle who passed out and the toddler got ahold of a drink and was plastered. Why was everyone outraged over that and then say 'Mistakes Happen' when it comes to this story? The story doesn't mention a BAC but the effects were enough that the mother noticed and brought it managements attention (who agreed that it did happen).
I'm 100% against bad lawsuits, but I feel this one is good. I think she will get her 75k, and probably could have sued for a lot more.