Yes... He is in the grey area (ie kinda too young for res schooling...I think most kids should wait til 4th grade/middle school) but at the same time if he's old enough to sleep over someone's house, he could res school it.....The only issue I have with that suggestion is that he may be developmentally too young to understand about going off to live at school due to his multiple issues...On the other hand,. there ARE children who are developmentally like him who are in the dorms or at other residential schools/nursing homes..Also, it could give you a break.....I don't want to sound "stick all kids with severe disabilities in the attic/res school" but, at the same time it's important to acknowledge that raising a kid with severe issues can be really exhausting....it could give you a break...you could see him on weekends, and vacations, and even visit him a lot! It's very easy to burn out with a severe kid...It could also only be a temporary placement(until you find a job closer to the school...and remember you could live out an hour away from the school, and he could still be a day student ) .....I'm thinking maybe with intense immersion with ASL and teachers who are trained in Deaf Special Needs education, he could aquire skills that he couldn't in his current setting...and it could turn out that he might be smarter then anyone ever thought! Maybe a good idea might be to see if they have a trial period, so he could stay in the dorms and see if that works....Hope this helps...and yeah I know it would be very hard to dorm him....Still it could help as a temporary solution!