Marriage, A trap?

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Marriage isn't what it use to be. Long time ago, people married for God and love.

But now, it seems like a trap...

Marriage is like a chain.

Men are so out of control, there is no way to keep them,
but they are slippery as a fish, they just slip right out of your hands.

Strong Relationship or Weak Relationship.

And when men wanna get out of the marriage, they will find
a way to hurt women so bad... such as cheating or whatever.

Same thing in Mid East in India or other area, men would burn their wives up alive, in order to get rid of them.
If wives won't leave marriage, they will burn them up....
It is true, I saw on Oprah, you can look it up in the website....

It is so sad. That is why I don't bother with men anymore
because they are so hard to love.

So anyway, women love their children, and some women want children
because they don't need a piece a paper or a legal document or
contract to claim their children...
Children will forever be with them, because of blood thicker than water.
I would love to have a kid one day, to raise him or her, and get and give
gifts, and all the hug and love and nurturing, watch him or her grow up
to have a nice career and all...
Thank God for Sperm Bank.

But men, sigh... forget them... let them run around in the alley
wild. I don't really need them.

Look at Oprah, she wouldn't want to marry Stedman... because
she knows that Stedman will leave her after he gets his hands on
her money.


And Ella said I am scary men away...

So if I dress nice, have my hair done, work hard for men,
act like a lady, be more mature, be a blockhead, and all...
And do whatever men want me to do, learn how to cook
and do other homemake activity... and so and so.

And after I won a man, yes WON, Won a man,
and he married me...

And then what? Let myself go??? Let him see
me his worst nightmare?
Or do I keep working hard in marriage, keep my hair nice, dress nice,
stay manure, be a blockhead, act like a lady, cook and clean
and do whatever to keep marriage strong?
 
Blah blah blah.. missp

why do you care about this ?
aren't you married.. r u still stay single.. why necessary youwant talk..obvouisly you want talk about mr right guy for you... I thought you want stay single..

*confused* Im getting know you more more..

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Miss P, not only men hurt their wives but women also hurt their husbands.......geez no wonder why men don't want you. If you hate men so much then it is your problem and you need to fix on that attitude of yours.
 
:o you just like to blah blah blah blah blah... You are not marriage, why bring it up?? It's not your business to know every people's marriage. Everyone have different reasons...
 
If you look at all the soap opera...

in and out of marriage, another woman, or another man.

then I read up on website, "Celebrity who have the longest marriage"
Denzel and his wife, Warren Beatty and his wife....

And then Tom Cruise who was married 3 times.

There is more than life than who is married, and who is not married...
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
yeah if you get involved in relationship, you get hurt.

Who wanna get hurt?
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Not everyone gets hurt in a relationship. Some people are very happy with their relationships while some others are not happy. So what about it? That's how life works. You are just jealous about other people being in a relationship because you don't have one. Blah all you want because no one is listening to you.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
If you look at all the soap opera...

in and out of marriage, another woman, or another man.

then I read up on website, "Celebrity who have the longest marriage"
Denzel and his wife, Warren Beatty and his wife....

And then Tom Cruise who was married 3 times.

There is more than life than who is married, and who is not married...
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Geez Miss P, soap operas are not based on real lives.
 
BlueButterfly said:
Not You are just jealous about other people being in a relationship because you don't have one. Blah all you want because no one is listening to you.
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Yeah, that is sad too...
I won't ever ever ever have a happy relationship with a man...
And I feel people used marriage to make other people feel bad.

Look at Clara Harris, ran down her husband.... because
she wanted that marriage to be perfect and she loved the
way people compliment her on how she and her husband stayed together.
But because another woman came in, she got mad and killed her husband.

And that lady Broderick, she killed her husband.

And so and so...

And even Amy Fisher got jealous and tried to kill Bocofuco's wife.
Now Amy Fisher out of prison, married an older man, and have 2 children.
Geez, she still doesn't get it...
There is more than life than just to get marriage and have a perfect family.

That is why I made this thread, because yesterday on Oprah,
she was interviewing Bocofuco's wife...
She said she is still in pain on her face... and Amy Fisher
never apologize to her.

And I'm saying, marriage sucks... it doesn't do anyone good at all.

I'm just lucky.
 
hurt me please. I'll bite your butt. *growl*

Marriage is cool anyway, that something you have to learn how to deal with it. Someone who marry the wrong person for each other and their marriage screw up. That's why. That's something someone didn't tell you about their real personalty before ahead to get marry. That's something I have to be careful. woof.
 
I don't think marriage is cool.

I think Birthday is the coolest, because get a lot of presents and gifts, nice
party.... and it is cheaper too.

That is why I don't go to weddings anymore....
because I won't ever get marry.

Oh well.
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
I don't think marriage is cool.

I think Birthday is the coolest, because get a lot of presents and gifts, nice
party.... and it is cheaper too.

That is why I don't go to weddings anymore....
because I won't ever get marry.

Oh well.
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What a crybaby! You sound so desperate to get a man and you are covering it up by saying negative remarks about other people's relationships. Jealous, jealous, jealous!
 
EDGE said:
hurt me please. I'll bite your butt. *growl*

Marriage is cool anyway, that something you have to learn how to deal with it. Someone who marry the wrong person for each other and their marriage screw up. That's why. That's something someone didn't tell you about their real personalty before ahead to get marry. That's something I have to be careful. woof.
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Yea I agree with you on this. Let me know if you left a big bite mark on Miss P's butt lol.
 
BlueButterfly said:
Geez Miss P, soap operas are not based on real lives.
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RIGHT ON!! Does witches like Tabitha, Endora from Passions exists in real world? NO! People in Soap Opera such as Day of our Life, All my Children are COMPLETELY FAKE! You just wanted to believe yourself that real world is soap opera which are not true.
 
Miss P.

Why should you worry about marriage bein' a trap ? Marriage is sacred and it belongs to God. You don't have to worry about if, you KNEW that God is always good and will take care of marriage. Marriage is NOT people's idea - it's God's. Soo... just leave it to Him. :)
 
Miss*Pinocchio said:
Marriage isn't what it use to be. Long time ago, people married for God and love.

But now, it seems like a trap...

Marriage is like a chain.

Men are so out of control, there is no way to keep them,
but they are slippery as a fish, they just slip right out of your hands.

Strong Relationship or Weak Relationship.

And when men wanna get out of the marriage, they will find
a way to hurt women so bad... such as cheating or whatever.

Same thing in Mid East in India or other area, men would burn their wives up alive, in order to get rid of them.
If wives won't leave marriage, they will burn them up....
It is true, I saw on Oprah, you can look it up in the website....

It is so sad. That is why I don't bother with men anymore
because they are so hard to love.

So anyway, women love their children, and some women want children
because they don't need a piece a paper or a legal document or
contract to claim their children...
Children will forever be with them, because of blood thicker than water.
I would love to have a kid one day, to raise him or her, and get and give
gifts, and all the hug and love and nurturing, watch him or her grow up
to have a nice career and all...
Thank God for Sperm Bank.

But men, sigh... forget them... let them run around in the alley
wild. I don't really need them.

Look at Oprah, she wouldn't want to marry Stedman... because
she knows that Stedman will leave her after he gets his hands on
her money.


And Ella said I am scary men away...

So if I dress nice, have my hair done, work hard for men,
act like a lady, be more mature, be a blockhead, and all...
And do whatever men want me to do, learn how to cook
and do other homemake activity... and so and so.

And after I won a man, yes WON, Won a man,
and he married me...

And then what? Let myself go??? Let him see
me his worst nightmare?
Or do I keep working hard in marriage, keep my hair nice, dress nice,
stay manure, be a blockhead, act like a lady, cook and clean
and do whatever to keep marriage strong?
Click to expand...

You're just trying to justify your celibancy. :thumbd:
 
Well, marriages weren't orginally started out as ceremonies of love. It was all about keeping royalty in family, keeping peaces by marrying off a king's daughter, and to pay off a debt, and many more. A marriage was considered as a transcation.
It is a new concept for people to marry for -love-! Around (maybe even far back in 1500s) 1600s or 1700s, people started to develop sentimental values within a marriage and encourage people to marry for love.
 
Every marriages are different. Soap opera are FAKE and make believe. Marriage is a piece of paper that commit to love, honor, and cherish each other for sick and health, for poor and rich... I am sure every people's marriage are different. Some are happy and some are not, and some have reach their 70th anniversary and so on.

I am happy with my marriage with my husband and both of us are commit in everything, sharing house, sharing auto, sharing a child, sharing joint account, sharing investment which are good thing. I was told that being alone or single is miserable when you get older, when you get older, you would say, Man, I wish I have children, man I wish I am married to someone. I remember when my husband was 43 when I met him, and while we were on blind date, and we talked a little about the future, and I remember him being saying, "I hate being alone, I hate being single, and I wish I am with someone and have family and everything like everyone does". Every marriage have differences. Communication is the key for couple to stay active and talk about everything which make it stronger. No communicate, no spending time or anything will make the marriage in trap. Got to learn to be open mind, communicate, and spend time with your spouse/companion.

Miss*P, I guess you don't know how to communicate with a guy, I guess you don't know how to spend time with a guy, and it mean you are trapping with a guy who like you.

Miss*P, you might not know what marriage are like, and you have NO IDEA how much marriage mean to you in real life... You might heard or watch TOO much TV and reading everyone's marriage.

Why you do care, if you want to know what is like, then get married and if you dont like, you can always divorce him?
 
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