LOVE?! help me please

dont worry kid, you have so much potential in you you will find an right guy if he s not the one i my suggestion is go with the flow and dont worry let time sort things outyou ll only hurt yourself i fyou keep worrying about this so just lay down and relax until you get the respondse its like worrying about when you ll die you know? no point doing that i know it hurts and y ou re scared out of your mind but like i said dont worry just relax
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thanks!what u said makes alot of sense. I just hope he is the one and accepts me for who i really am. I don't want him to be disappointed. and he may not say that he is to me directly , but he can think it ya know?
I just don't want this to end and then me realize it was all my fault that it ended up in disaster. i couldn't bare to have that feeling in me. it'd prolly kill me.
 
OK! so he took it horribly.
said it was fucked up and ended
the sentence with but w/e.
said it was a way to get someone
to trust you. I feel.. like im going to be
nautious. I love him , and he hates me
for doing what i did. I feel terrible.
like i just screwed something that could
have been a once in a lifetime oppurtunity.
I guess his love wasen't genuine Gemtum.
he loved what he *thot* i looked like.
not the real me. or my personality. I've learnt
my lesson. never lie to a guy about what u look like
and don't waste your time on someone that dosen't
*TRULY* love you.
sadly.. i guess it's the end?
 
Aww I'm sorry to hear that :hug: sometimes we lose someone we truly love but it also show us it wasn't meant to be, so keep your chin up hon, cause there's this speical guy out there somewhere, just have to keep looking for that someone....

Hang in there, I know whats it like to have a broken heart but be glad you're young cause you have a whole life ahead of you and there are more guys out there that will love you for who you are and your pesonality!
 
he hates me..
i feel terrible!
like i wanna cry..
and watch stupid love movies
lol pathetic.. and sad? yes very.
 
Nooo he doesn't hate you, you made a mistake and you're young, so I'm sure you've learn your lesson, I've done tons of mistakes in my life, sometimes I would sit in the bathroom and cry it out but then again I know things will get better later on I just have to believe that, and it did, so I hope you will do the same when the time is right...Don't cry girl cause no man is worth your tears :hug:
 
yes he really hates me. he thinks i played him said he didn't wanna talk to me.
he HATES me
 
well um today we've been talking.. and it's awkward we havent spoken about what happened and stuff really yet. um we're talking casually like i said its very awkward. i don't know what to say do i ask him if he still loves me? or if he hates me? what do i do/say? he said bye yesterday. now he's talking to me.. what is he doing? i am soo confused
 
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From : Adam brown <timber_royalking16@hotmail.com>
Sent : October 6, 2006 11:11:38 AM
To : <jessica.xox24@hotmail.com>

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u suck ur all sad and like..ya just sad lol jeeeeeeeez whats wrong now?
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what on earthh :S
 
I´m very sorry, Jessica... :(


Jessica.+* said:
yes he really hates me. he thinks i played him said he didn't wanna talk to me.
he HATES me
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No, he don´t hate you but angry because he feel being betray... Give him time... Don´t bother him but give him time until he calm down... then... Accept if he don´t want do anything with you... that´s because you made a mistake... Next time, you know what you doing if you meet someone else...

keep your chin up :hug: There´re plenty of fishes, you catch right one .... then you know ....
 
From : Adam brown
Sent : October 6, 2006 11:19:39 AM
To : Jessica
Subject : LIES

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lol i hated u? i could never hate u...i just dont c y u would make me believe u were sum1 else this whole time and how u could lie so much.
and dont be sad u suck if ur sad :D
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kay now im seriously confused.
 
>From: "Adam brown" >
To: Jessica
>Date: Fri, 06 Oct 2006 12:27:42 -0400
>
>hmm did u actually take that chiks pics or r u just trying to test
>me if i love u for u?
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uhm i think hes devastated
 
Jessica.+* said:
uhm i think hes devastated
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Jessica,

You have to let this guy go through a thousand of emotions before he can talk sense. Imagine yourself in his shoes - how would you feel if Adam actually was the one who sent you a photo that wasnt of him? I m sure that you would feel betrayed, confused, angry, hurt, and so on.

Give him space. Give him permission to rant & rave. You know what you did was wrong so you have to let him express his emotions.

Dont overanalyze his words - he will change emotions from anger to confusion to devastation - anger - confusion - devastation ....that is normal.

Just remain patient and stop worrying whether he hates you. You will be fine.
 
i know. i have to give him time. but truth is if he did what i did i wouldnt really care to tell u the truth i love him for the person he is. looks don't really matter to me at all! which is weird for a teen yes.. i know. but w/e.
I know i have to give him time. I'm pretty sure he's ok..i iunno im as confused as he is lol :s
 
talk to your parents, if they're succesful marriage.
 
talk to your parents, if they're succesful marriage.
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My parents don't have a successful marriage. no one in my family does lol
all ended up in divorce. I wanna be the first one to be with ONE guy i will spend my life with. altho i'm young and i have alot of growing up to do i know what i want and who i want. and Right now I KNOW i want adam. I made a mistake but love is about putting that person infront of urself for always. having that feeling for them forever. about accepting the person for who they are and the mistakes they made. Love is no matter what.
i just hope he forgives me soon cause i can't stand not having him .. it kills me
 
Jessica..

Loving yourself is important.. You can't put others first unless you love yourself first. I had to put myself first after my divorce in order to find my boyfriend and true love now. You need to give him space. I understand impatience, but it can push people away.

If you don't want to push him away, let him vent about what happened, he'll forgive you and you will have to build the trust that was lost, but Love is waiting, Love is taking your time and following your heart. But not to the point it becomes stalking.

Love can be amazing beyond anything in the world, but it takes time and patience to get that. It's not going to happen tomorrow.

BearBeauty.
 
I'm trying my bestest!! i don't think im pushing him away..
he comes to me talking to me on msn and e-mails and stuff.
love is very confusing!! but i love it :D
 
From :Adam brown
To :Jessica Gran

put urself down much? yoooooo there's no1but u and will always be like that
of cource i want to talk to u I FUCKIN LOVE U LIKE FUCKIN CRAZY goodfight # 1 girl forever LOL
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I don't know what he's doing probably going thru all those emotions as you guys said! but this one made me feel alot better!
 
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