Life is what you made

[DreamyHawaii]

Did you know ? That things you do with this life is what you made. Is it true or false?

 

[The*Empress]

no...
I blame the society and everything...

if I had a nice family with good father and good mother and good sister....
then I would probably be a better person...
but then since I was brought up in a dysfunctional family, it just
messed up me, and I made so many bad decision.

I know what everyone will say, "you can't blame anybody."

But right now, I guess by having a better life, I decided
to stay at home, save up all my SSI money and use foodstamp,
and just sit back and watch life go by....
Since there are so many obstacles (dog eat dog world), backstabbing,
and "can't" world, then I decided to say, "Oh I give up, I guess I just
layback and do nothing."

USA is suppose to be the land of the free, what happen?
why people limited each other from doing things they wanna do?

For example, we have to stand in long line and take off hat and shoes at
the airport, and all.... because of terrorists messed up the society.
Now there are strikes and people losing jobs, and then airplane's 4 tires blew out because mechanics mad....
And some of us don't wanna travel if mechanics are on strike....

It seems life isn't gonna get better.... :Ohno:

 

[DreamyHawaii]

It's how you talking negatives about others that life is what you made!

You just want to mentioned about others and blamed on them each others. It means you make the word of speak from your tongue or sign language or typing on the forums. That life is what you made!!!! Watch what you are saying and let God take care of your worries about others and do your word to speak about good things each others that life is what you made!!! It is how you create of your own life's way that means life is what you made. You created to be freedom no need job only you want is to get ssi and food stamps also stay home and use your internet that life is what you made too!
I believe my life is what I made. It's because I create my career for future to become professonalism at work for Jack of all trades it's called odd job that life is what I made. I presently goes to dental technican training at private industry that is also life is what I made too.See what I means by that.I cannot blame you for what you saying about negative each others but the life is what you made through by what you did speaks about negatives about those others. The only I am pray God that He is taking care of those problems out there. As for me keep humble and stay off from negative with those others. I want to stay in faith,love,and hope for all the possible ways and make good news to say about those others it will brings to sharing good news each others. That or this life is what I did made too...
I am sorry if I did something do with criticizes you and please forgive me ok. I did not see if I did do that to you ok. If you refuse to forgive me for what I said sorry if I did doing something criticize you then God will not forgive you.
And if you did criticize about those others in front of ADer forums it sounds sad to hear about those that. You will need to tell them how am I sorry for what I did do wrong about criticize each others and please forgive me what I did do wrong. Then they will be glad to forgive and they will be shock to heard that. That is impressive to them. So you will be feel released from that full of sinful inside of yours that won't go away from you unitl you say sorry for what you did do wrong. So you will be alright and then now you see life is what you made! God has miracle out there. God is awaits for you!

no...
I blame the society and everything...

if I had a nice family with good father and good mother and good sister....
then I would probably be a better person...
but then since I was brought up in a dysfunctional family, it just
messed up me, and I made so many bad decision.

I know what everyone will say, "you can't blame anybody."

But right now, I guess by having a better life, I decided
to stay at home, save up all my SSI money and use foodstamp,
and just sit back and watch life go by....
Since there are so many obstacles (dog eat dog world), backstabbing,
and "can't" world, then I decided to say, "Oh I give up, I guess I just
layback and do nothing."

USA is suppose to be the land of the free, what happen?
why people limited each other from doing things they wanna do?

For example, we have to stand in long line and take off hat and shoes at
the airport, and all.... because of terrorists messed up the society.
Now there are strikes and people losing jobs, and then airplane's 4 tires blew out because mechanics mad....
And some of us don't wanna travel if mechanics are on strike....

It seems life isn't gonna get better.... :Ohno:

 

[CODAchild]

I was brought up in a good home, both my parent's are deaf, my sister and I both born hearing. I had lots of trouble in school, because both my parent's educations were limited many years ago, my dad graduated in the 8th grade, my mom left school in the 11th grade, it was during the depression and she wanted to help her mom with finances because my grandfather had died when my mom was very young. As I look back now, it was not a total setback for any of us in my family, we had learned a lot of things from my parent's, and they taught us a lot of very valuable lessons that helped make me a better person today.
I know society isn't what is what back in the youth of my parent's day, they would leave the doors unlocked, able to go for walks at night without any problems. But, that was then, and things have changed so much, people are different, society is different, but who we are is based on how our parent's raised us, nutured us, loved us to make us the person we are today. We cannot totally blame society for our life going in a different direction. Yes, all the necessities like gas, oil, food, clothing have taken such a rise in price and we try our best to make ends meet and give our families the best we can. We have to be the ones to make the move into making our lives comfortable, and try to look at the positive side of things, looking at the negative can only bring your life down more. We need to weigh the pros and cons of how our life has turned out for us today. Only we ourselves make our lives to what it is today. As for airport security, sure, it's a hassle, but, that's only out to protect us. We may complain about the gas, the oil, the food prices going up so much, but, has that stopped us from driving, keeping our house warm or putting food on the table? NO! Because this is the valuable lesson we learned from our parent's that these are the important things in life that we need to do to keep our family nourished, warm and well taken care of. We may have had hardships in our families while growing up, but, that doesn't mean we follow in those footsteps, this is a learning and growing tool for us to put our life in a postive prospective. Remember, our parent's took care of us, loved us, fed us, washed our clothes, tended to our needs, helped us with our schoolwork, this is a valuable lesson we learned from our parent's, now it's time to pass all that we learned onto our children so they can make their lives what it truly is supposed to be. God bless it will be a good one.

 

[DreamyHawaii]

That's great testimony and that is how life is what you made too.

Thanks for testimony and I understand life is what you made too.

I was brought up in a good home, both my parent's are deaf, my sister and I both born hearing. I had lots of trouble in school, because both my parent's educations were limited many years ago, my dad graduated in the 8th grade, my mom left school in the 11th grade, it was during the depression and she wanted to help her mom with finances because my grandfather had died when my mom was very young. As I look back now, it was not a total setback for any of us in my family, we had learned a lot of things from my parent's, and they taught us a lot of very valuable lessons that helped make me a better person today.
I know society isn't what is what back in the youth of my parent's day, they would leave the doors unlocked, able to go for walks at night without any problems. But, that was then, and things have changed so much, people are different, society is different, but who we are is based on how our parent's raised us, nutured us, loved us to make us the person we are today. We cannot totally blame society for our life going in a different direction. Yes, all the necessities like gas, oil, food, clothing have taken such a rise in price and we try our best to make ends meet and give our families the best we can. We have to be the ones to make the move into making our lives comfortable, and try to look at the positive side of things, looking at the negative can only bring your life down more. We need to weigh the pros and cons of how our life has turned out for us today. Only we ourselves make our lives to what it is today. As for airport security, sure, it's a hassle, but, that's only out to protect us. We may complain about the gas, the oil, the food prices going up so much, but, has that stopped us from driving, keeping our house warm or putting food on the table? NO! Because this is the valuable lesson we learned from our parent's that these are the important things in life that we need to do to keep our family nourished, warm and well taken care of. We may have had hardships in our families while growing up, but, that doesn't mean we follow in those footsteps, this is a learning and growing tool for us to put our life in a postive prospective. Remember, our parent's took care of us, loved us, fed us, washed our clothes, tended to our needs, helped us with our schoolwork, this is a valuable lesson we learned from our parent's, now it's time to pass all that we learned onto our children so they can make their lives what it truly is supposed to be. God bless it will be a good one.

 

[diehardbiker]

Wait! You have decided to sit back and get your ass fatter than it was in the first place and collect SSI benefits, then you said where is freedom? You were free to choose to sit and get your ass fat, and collect lousy SSI check. Who stopped you from pursuiting dream? I think you already know the answer to this stupid question.

We live in the land full of opportunities. We have opportunity to screw ourself up, or opportunity to break the vicious cycle that chains us into despair.
Nobody is going to tell you how to do either way! So choice is totally up to you.

I really don't understand why you worked so hard getting 2 college degrees and finally decided to do NOTHING about what you have earned. If I were you, I would have hit the resume and sell myself with fancy two college degrees, even if I have to land on McDonald's floor.

But right now, I guess by having a better life, I decided
to stay at home, save up all my SSI money and use foodstamp,
and just sit back and watch life go by....

Since there are so many obstacles (dog eat dog world), backstabbing,
and "can't" world, then I decided to say, "Oh I give up, I guess I just
layback and do nothing."

USA is suppose to be the land of the free, what happen?
why people limited each other from doing things they wanna do?



It seems life isn't gonna get better.... :Ohno:

 

[The*Empress]

QUOTE by DreamyHawaii....You just want to mentioned about others and blamed on them each others. It means you make the word of speak from your tongue or sign language or typing on the forums. That life is what you made!!!! Watch what you are saying and let God take care of your worries about others and do your word to speak about good things each others that life is what you made!!! It is how you create of your own life's way that means life is what you made. You created to be freedom no need job only you want is to get ssi and food stamps also stay home and use your internet that life is what you made too!

Yeah, that is what I always wanted, some freedom to live on SSI, food stamps, and live home with mom.
I am lucky that I am not married or have children, cause that way
I don't have to work, babysit, have many unwanted sex, nursing, and
all.... I can just forget all of that, and live relaxing life. Whew.
At least I made some effort, such as gone colleges and get 2 college degrees, and search for jobs (only thing I come up with low income job)...
but at least I try. So now I just gonna give up trying again...
and just relax and live off SSI and stuff.

I believe my life is what I made. It's because I create my career for future to become professonalism at work for Jack of all trades it's called odd job that life is what I made. I presently goes to dental technican training at private industry that is also life is what I made too.See what I means by that.I cannot blame you for what you saying about negative each others but the life is what you made through by what you did speaks about negatives about those others. The only I am pray God that He is taking care of those problems out there. As for me keep humble and stay off from negative with those others. I want to stay in faith,love,and hope for all the possible ways and make good news to say about those others it will brings to sharing good news each others. That or this life is what I did made too...
I am sorry if I did something do with criticizes you and please forgive me ok. I did not see if I did do that to you ok. If you refuse to forgive me for what I said sorry if I did doing something criticize you then God will not forgive you.
And if you did criticize about those others in front of ADer forums it sounds sad to hear about those that. You will need to tell them how am I sorry for what I did do wrong about criticize each others and please forgive me what I did do wrong. Then they will be glad to forgive and they will be shock to heard that. That is impressive to them. So you will be feel released from that full of sinful inside of yours that won't go away from you unitl you say sorry for what you did do wrong. So you will be alright and then now you see life is what you made! God has miracle out there. God is awaits for you![/QUOTE]

Well you can't compare your life and yourself to my life and me.
Because you were not in my shoes, you don't know my life.
You can't just say, "Oh I made it successfully, why you can't?"
One day I was downtown, and I saw many homeless people, and
I wonder why these people ain't trying to get jobs or whatever...
And they ain't disabled or anything... their nothing wrong with their mental health, it is just that they lost everything....
it can happen to anyone.... that homeless lady probably too old
to work, and can't find job, and lost her home, and now live on the street, begging for food. She doesn't do drugs or anything.
So you can't compare yourself to anybody, everybody has different issue and different life.....
That is life.... not everybody can't be on top....
If there is help available, then go ahead and get food stamp and be on SSI, there is nothing wrong with that....

 

[The*Empress]

Wait! You have decided to sit back and get your ass fatter than it was in the first place and collect SSI benefits, then you said where is freedom? You were free to choose to sit and get your ass fat, and collect lousy SSI check. Who stopped you from pursuiting dream? I think you already know the answer to this stupid question.

We live in the land full of opportunities. We have opportunity to screw ourself up, or opportunity to break the vicious cycle that chains us into despair.
Nobody is going to tell you how to do either way! So choice is totally up to you.

I really don't understand why you worked so hard getting 2 college degrees and finally decided to do NOTHING about what you have earned. If I were you, I would have hit the resume and sell myself with fancy two college degrees, even if I have to land on McDonald's floor.

Nobody stop me from pursuiting dream, I just don't want to be a filmmaker
because I realize that I have to socialize.... and to communicate...
and I don't like to socialize and I don't talk much to people.

I just got lazy now.... I am planning to go on another vacation in
the next 2 years, so I am starting to save up my money for that trip too

 

[racheleggert]

Unlikely Mrs. RavenSteven61 who want to sit on her ass and get fat watching boob tube with her hubby, RS61 with their mamas on their sides in case if it's lacation time....

I go out, I have jobs (some paid/some volunteer), going to college, and I am outgoing, I go out and do stuff to keep myself busy like this morning I went to training at State Fair, now I am at home relaxing... I do get SSI check yes but I don't sit on my ass around at home 24/7... sometimes I go out, don't need to spend money on....

This is what RS and Ms P doing since they don't get work, wanna sit on their asses all day watching tv!!!

 

[CODAchild]

Thanks for testimony and I understand life is what you made too.

so much Dreamy Hawaii for being so nice. We both know what life is really about just like some of our other friends here on AD.

 

[DreamyHawaii]

Sigh I am sorry I could not understand what you are talking about this message?

I guess that you think I am wrong about life is what you made. It's how you create things to do with your life out there! You speaks is really confused about life is what you made. It's not what I am talking about your situation and that is only ask the question is it true or false and That things you do with it as life is what you made. I am sorry that there is something you are talking about full of illusion and wandered off about this issue. That is imbecile about those what you are talking about it. It's not that life is what you made me to do that to you? It did not says that. Hurry up! How can you tell me discuss?! if not,then you are out of question and that is it period. ok you got that word?! You are out of order about this issue. I let you talk that way. That is it. Miss Pinocchio you have 2 computers one for RS and one for you and it means you let him use your MISS PINOCCHIO's AD screen name that I think it is who was your neighborhood or roomate as I feel guess it was true. Because of RS's language is in use of your screen name! You will be the next one to be banned! lol

QUOTE by DreamyHawaii....You just want to mentioned about others and blamed on them each others. It means you make the word of speak from your tongue or sign language or typing on the forums. That life is what you made!!!! Watch what you are saying and let God take care of your worries about others and do your word to speak about good things each others that life is what you made!!! It is how you create of your own life's way that means life is what you made. You created to be freedom no need job only you want is to get ssi and food stamps also stay home and use your internet that life is what you made too!

Yeah, that is what I always wanted, some freedom to live on SSI, food stamps, and live home with mom.
I am lucky that I am not married or have children, cause that way
I don't have to work, babysit, have many unwanted sex, nursing, and
all.... I can just forget all of that, and live relaxing life. Whew.
At least I made some effort, such as gone colleges and get 2 college degrees, and search for jobs (only thing I come up with low income job)...
but at least I try. So now I just gonna give up trying again...
and just relax and live off SSI and stuff.

I believe my life is what I made. It's because I create my career for future to become professonalism at work for Jack of all trades it's called odd job that life is what I made. I presently goes to dental technican training at private industry that is also life is what I made too.See what I means by that.I cannot blame you for what you saying about negative each others but the life is what you made through by what you did speaks about negatives about those others. The only I am pray God that He is taking care of those problems out there. As for me keep humble and stay off from negative with those others. I want to stay in faith,love,and hope for all the possible ways and make good news to say about those others it will brings to sharing good news each others. That or this life is what I did made too...
I am sorry if I did something do with criticizes you and please forgive me ok. I did not see if I did do that to you ok. If you refuse to forgive me for what I said sorry if I did doing something criticize you then God will not forgive you.
And if you did criticize about those others in front of ADer forums it sounds sad to hear about those that. You will need to tell them how am I sorry for what I did do wrong about criticize each others and please forgive me what I did do wrong. Then they will be glad to forgive and they will be shock to heard that. That is impressive to them. So you will be feel released from that full of sinful inside of yours that won't go away from you unitl you say sorry for what you did do wrong. So you will be alright and then now you see life is what you made! God has miracle out there. God is awaits for you!

Well you can't compare your life and yourself to my life and me.
Because you were not in my shoes, you don't know my life.
You can't just say, "Oh I made it successfully, why you can't?"
One day I was downtown, and I saw many homeless people, and
I wonder why these people ain't trying to get jobs or whatever...
And they ain't disabled or anything... their nothing wrong with their mental health, it is just that they lost everything....
it can happen to anyone.... that homeless lady probably too old
to work, and can't find job, and lost her home, and now live on the street, begging for food. She doesn't do drugs or anything.
So you can't compare yourself to anybody, everybody has different issue and different life.....
That is life.... not everybody can't be on top....
If there is help available, then go ahead and get food stamp and be on SSI, there is nothing wrong with that....[/QUOTE]

 

[TweetyBird]

Unlikely Mrs. RavenSteven61 who want to sit on her ass and get fat watching boob tube with her hubby, RS61 with their mamas on their sides in case if it's lacation time....

I go out, I have jobs (some paid/some volunteer), going to college, and I am outgoing, I go out and do stuff to keep myself busy like this morning I went to training at State Fair, now I am at home relaxing... I do get SSI check yes but I don't sit on my ass around at home 24/7... sometimes I go out, don't need to spend money on....

This is what RS and Ms P doing since they don't get work, wanna sit on their asses all day watching tv!!!

hahahaha it make me laugh hard!!!!!

 

[The*Empress]

Well I don't know "Life is what you made?" really is....

I was using relay to call someone, and some people
just hang up on me... because
they have no patient with relay calls...
Some people are so mean and cold hearted...
there is something people can't control.

Sometimes thing happen to good nice outgoing friendly people.

If I stop being negative and be more positive here on
forum... what will happen, will the people here, including you be
my friend and invite me to your place and have party or go out somewhere?

Be a people please, do whatever people want me to do?

 

[DreamyHawaii]

Through your mind you know....

I understands your feels but just remember who you did negatives about those someone or anyone and you have to go to see them face to face to tell them how you are sorry that you did something with negatives and beg them to forgive you and they will be shock to see that you did say sorry and when they are done forgive you and you will be changed your life and your communicate improves better and new skills that you will ever noticed it yourself. Because of you did told them that you are sorry and begged them to forgive you and they willing to forgive you. You will be amazed to see yourself has felt much better and understand clearly up about yourself and stop using negatives each others. Just use your positive attitudes and speaks properly that they will understands you better and enjoy your compnaionship each others too. smile.
You will noticed it and that things has a big changed way of your life and happiness that you will ever have! God is awaits for you to tell them sorry and they will be shocked to see that you say sorry. So God can see it and will be forgiven you and set you free! yey!!!

Well I don't know "Life is what you made?" really is....

I was using relay to call someone, and some people
just hang up on me... because
they have no patient with relay calls...
Some people are so mean and cold hearted...
there is something people can't control.

Sometimes thing happen to good nice outgoing friendly people.

If I stop being negative and be more positive here on
forum... what will happen, will the people here, including you be
my friend and invite me to your place and have party or go out somewhere?

Be a people please, do whatever people want me to do?

 

[The*Empress]

i don't think i will go to hell for speaking negative to people.
i don't see anywhere in the Bible that say, "Thou shalt not speak negative to people."


it is the truth, and I can't just lie to avoid hurting people.
it is stupid to try to play God in my life, and have revenge on me and
all over some things I say.

People who revenge on me are the one will go to hell, cause wrath is a sin...
they need to forgive me and move on.