July 4th 2012

AlleyCat said:
Very cool! :D
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It is but I dont go to all of their events even though I would like to. An old lover of mine from Gallaudet is the founder and his wife tend to go. Too awkward. When I went last July, the guy was in Peru for the whole summer so it was ok. I wanted to go to their bowling event recently but he and his wife was gonna be there and my friend who is a member felt uncomfortable so I didnt go. I do wish all 3 of them would just get over what happened in the past. It is silly. I am married now and no longer have a desire to hook up with him. Oh well.
 
shel90 said:
It is but I dont go to all of their events even though I would like to. An old lover of mine from Gallaudet is the founder and his wife tend to go. Too awkward. When I went last July, the guy was in Peru for the whole summer so it was ok. I wanted to go to their bowling event recently but he and his wife was gonna be there and my friend who is a member felt uncomfortable so I didnt go. I do wish all 3 of them would just get over what happened in the past. It is silly. I am married now and no longer have a desire to hook up with him. Oh well.
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It takes some time to pass the awkward moment. I hate that too. That event sounds so fun.
 
Frisky Feline said:
It takes some time to pass the awkward moment. I hate that too. That event sounds so fun.
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The last time I was "with" him, it was 7 years ago. Then, we hadnt seen each other until my friend started inviting me to the LDHH events. Saw him there and he told me in private, "Stay cool!" After 6 years, he says that? WTF?

His wife told my friend she hates my guts and doesnt really want me there. Oh well.
 
shel90 said:
The last time I was "with" him, it was 7 years ago. Then, we hadnt seen each other until my friend started inviting me to the LDHH events. Saw him there and he told me in private, "Stay cool!" After 6 years, he says that? WTF?

His wife told my friend she hates my guts and doesnt really want me there. Oh well.
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i know some people dont handle it too well. but they have to live with it now or later. some people are like that like i said it will pass. oh well lol
 
Frisky Feline said:
i know some people dont handle it too well. but they have to live with it now or later. some people are like that like i said it will pass. oh well lol
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Yea, just too bad for me because one of my good friends here in MD is on the board for this organization and she invites two of our other good friends to go but not me because of my history with the founder of the organization. I already have enough problems with my ex husband to add this to my list of problems so I just accept not getting invited.

Yea, I no longer get invited to the girls' night out in PA and dont get invited to the Latino events here in DC.

Makes me wonder if I am really a social outcast sometimes. Geez.
 
shel90 said:
Yea, just too bad for me because one of my good friends here in MD is on the board for this organization and she invites two of our other good friends to go but not me because of my history with the founder of the organization. I already have enough problems with my ex husband to add this to my list of problems so I just accept not getting invited.

Yea, I no longer get invited to the girls' night out in PA and dont get invited to the Latino events here in DC.

Makes me wonder if I am really a social outcast sometimes. Geez.
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no, its just one of your bad year. im so sorry, and things change everyday. I hate that too. what you can do to think positive, and you have an awesome family who know how to have good times. :hug:

seriously, ad reunion plan needs to make it happen soon. :(
 
Frisky Feline said:
no, its just one of your bad year. im so sorry, and things change everyday. I hate that too. what you can do to think positive, and you have an awesome family who know how to have good times. :hug:

seriously, ad reunion plan needs to make it happen soon. :(
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Yea, I have great times with my brother and his girlfriend. Her friends are awesome too and I am becoming close with one of them.

I still have 3 of my closest friends from here even though they go to the LDHH's events often without me (they are all Latinos) so I cant get mad at them for wanting to go even though I am not welcome most of the time. Many of the members of that club want me to come but want to respect the founder and his wife's wishes about me not being invited. I cant blame my friends for that. Just bad luck that I happened to have a sexual history with the founder during my Gallaudet days. Nothing i can do about it but it is nice to know that several LDHH members wish i could go often so that helps. I have other, more important problems to worry about anyway.

Yep, when will we have another AD renunion? Did the one in NYC in August happen?
 
AlleyCat said:
Heck no. Black Friday is No Friday for me. I don't even touch the stores. I stay home, sit by the fire, drink wine, watch TV, put up the Christmas tree, play with the kitties. That's my Thanksgiving Friday.
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Hey, what about Black Friday sales online like Amazon for one? ;)
 
No shopping! No computer! Just fun around the house :D

(If that means I lose out on good deals, I can live with it. Keeps me sane. :) )
 
shel90 said:
Yea, I have great times with my brother and his girlfriend. Her friends are awesome too and I am becoming close with one of them.

I still have 3 of my closest friends from here even though they go to the LDHH's events often without me (they are all Latinos) so I cant get mad at them for wanting to go even though I am not welcome most of the time. Many of the members of that club want me to come but want to respect the founder and his wife's wishes about me not being invited. I cant blame my friends for that. Just bad luck that I happened to have a sexual history with the founder during my Gallaudet days. Nothing i can do about it but it is nice to know that several LDHH members wish i could go often so that helps. I have other, more important problems to worry about anyway.

Yep, when will we have another AD renunion? Did the one in NYC in August happen?
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I still think your friends should stand by you but who knows by the june they would change their minds. Seriously, deaf world is pretty small, as well as latinos world. They are the one who should move on and forget the past since you are moved on already.

AD reunion did not happen in AUG since the event is cancelled. I think in 2012 like feb march or april i d like to see the ad reunion that will happen soooooon because i had blast time with all of you....
 
Yea, let's plan an AD party soon!
 
Get a new event planner this time who would actually stick to organizing it!
 
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