I am so CONFUSED!

[coolgirlspyer90]

So, Most of you guys probably already know with my childhood best guy friend liking me and making me feel awkward,etc.

My other best guy friend who I met before my other best guy friend (he's also deaf) came over to my house yesterday to hang out since we never see each other. He lives about an hour away from me when he's with his mom, and about 15 minutes away from me when he's at his dad's house. He really wanted to hang out with me, He wanted to come to my house at 11 at night on the day i was babysitting and I said no how about the next day? He couldnt come to my house the next day unfortunately due to being stuck at the eye doctor with something called a GPC on his eye. He came over yesterday and hung out with me at 1:30-9pm.

We basically hung out at my house for about an hour or so, watching tv and catching up with each other's lives. We also cuddled. We then decided to go to my friend's house who both of us know. She's hearing, but she knows some sign--still practicing with ASL. We hung out at her house for about 2 hours I think, and we also held hands while we were there. On the way back to my house we ate dinner at my house eating pizza, still catching up on stuff, and then we went downstairs and watched some tv some more. We again cuddled on the couch. But then during a commercial, I leaned in and kissed him. He didn't pull back. He smiled. After he left i texted him thanks for coming and basically flirted with him. He was also flirting and stuff. I asked him if he likes me and he said "kinda but i'm telling you that because i don't want girlfriend right now till after i graduate college because of girl drama" we both stopped texting each other around 11ish, and I couldn't sleep very well and up till 2AM, i texted him again saying the big ily to him because we kissed and I didn't think it would be such a big deal to him if i said it. And I think it was a bad idea because my other friend thinks i scared him away and my other best friend who we hung out at her house doesn't really think I did. then today he hasn't texted me back at all. I'm texting my friend about it right now because i am so confused. My love life is so messed up.. :Oops:

 

[dereksbicycles]

Just be glad that someone wants you. I didn't have anyone that wanted me in high school or college. You're lucky. Enjoy your youth.

 

[coolgirlspyer90]

Just be glad that someone wants you. I didn't have anyone that wanted me in high school or college. You're lucky. Enjoy your youth.

yeah but I think i might have scared him away with saying ILY to him at 2AM. and the fact he hasn't texted me back all day today kind of worries me.

 

[Paige]

maybe saying ily was a little too soon, but him kissing you, cuddling, flirting and stuff then saying that he is un sure of liking you is kinda mis-leading and stuff...

 

[coolgirlspyer90]

maybe saying ily was a little too soon, but him kissing you, cuddling, flirting and stuff then saying that he is un sure of liking you is kinda mis-leading and stuff...

I guess so. While i was texting my friend she said "that means nothing, guys will call the first chick they see after a break up babe or sweetie, seriously just go on to the next guy"

 

[coolgirlspyer90]

I'm getting myself into a emotional roller coaster right now..

 

[Babyblue]

Perhaps he is busy or his phone is dead. Who knows. Teenage years are confusing.
I do hope everything works out. If not....... you are young, and have a long way to go with dating and meeting other guys. The old fashion thing that is always said to a heartbroken person.... Plenty of other fish out in the sea.

 

[JoeyDeafNinja]

That story is simailr with my story. First time I asked girl out and she said yes. next day, she changed her mind..WTF! She said that I "too good" for her. That's bullshit.

 

[Shoshana]

yea you probley scared him....like he told you he was not looking for a relationship and then you text him "ILY" its akward and freaky...dont push it, flirt and cuddle and when its meant (if its meant) to be it will--otherwise you risk ruin your friendship.

 

[coolgirlspyer90]

He texted me back at 2AM this early morning, I told him that I hope i didn't bug him or freaked him out or anything and he said i didn't. We talked for about a half hour i think. And then later today i tried texting him again, no response all day.. :roll: He says he doesn't like to be with his phone. But idk. I saw that he posted a picture 6 hours ago on facebook with his phone. so I'm just kind of confused. He leaves for football camp tomorrow. Which is kind of sad. I'm not sure if he is going to be texting me back tonight or not. I kind of hope he does. bleh. still sooooo confused!

 

[Jiro]

I think you're thinking too much into it.

 

[Babyblue]

He texted me back at 2AM this early morning, I told him that I hope i didn't bug him or freaked him out or anything and he said i didn't. We talked for about a half hour i think. And then later today i tried texting him again, no response all day.. :roll: He says he doesn't like to be with his phone. But idk. I saw that he posted a picture 6 hours ago on facebook with his phone. so I'm just kind of confused. He leaves for football camp tomorrow. Which is kind of sad. I'm not sure if he is going to be texting me back tonight or not. I kind of hope he does. bleh. still sooooo confused!

Do you remember telling us about the boy that smothered you and made you feel overwhelmed when he would not stop texting you......You created a thread about it. http://www.alldeaf.com/marriage-dating-single-life/92551-ugh-okay-so-i-need-some-advice-2.html

You are doing the same very thing to him... back off a little and if he really likes you he will get back in touch with you. Do not pressure or smother him to the point where he will not want nothing to do with you. Desperation is not a good sign.