How Would I Solve This Problem?

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My good friend and I email each other regular, until his fiance told me to stop email to them because she don't like overquota as I have heaps to send out weekly.

I respect her and stop email to them, until I met him at Deaf Club, he was wondering why I don't email to him regular like I did, I told him I received email letter from his fiance telling me to stop, so I respect her.

He said "How cheeky of her, it is my computer, I paid for internet, please ignored her!!!!", I listen to him, and email to him again to pleased him.

I am fed up to receiving a 4th letter from his fiance telling me to STOP, but I know he will beresk about it, but I feel like I am in between deep blue sea and the devil, I don't know what to do.

I love to send him emails because he has european emails which is exotic to see.

Until I got a better idea, I told him to sign up Yahoo email, as alternative, he said he had this problem, believing this is a spyware, so I am at lost.

Sure I like to see both happy, but how to solve this problem??
 
It's depends on what sort of emails are you sending out to him weekly and what is it regarding to?...

I need more information before I am able to state my opinion or give out any advices...
 
Angel said:
It's depends on what sort of emails are you sending out to him weekly and what is it regarding to?...

I need more information before I am able to state my opinion or give out any advices...
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yea same here depend on what u send for what?
 
I would advise you to suggest your friend to talk with his fiance that he want to have your emails continuely and ask her to respect him.

OR

You response his fiance´s email telling her that his fiance wish to have your email and suggest her to solve with her fiance until everything work out then let you know that they agree to have your emails or not.

If both suggestions are not working then don´t email them until they agree together before let you know then...
 
I agree with Angel...


It depends on what emails you're sending. If it just humor stuff or news, I would think its okay to send. If its sexual stuff, then I wouldn't send it off . Especially if his/her fiance says you need to stop.. I suggest you stop and respect their relationship. If your friend comes forward and ask you again why you stopped.. You tell him his fiance prefers not to email him anymore. If he has a problem with it then he need to go talk to her. But respect their relationship though.

It could be her jealousy or just didn't think it was right for you to send a certain email...
 
Yea, It depends, I don't have enough information to place my opinion when I don't know what kind of emails you've been sending him.
 
Is she sending email to you from a different email account? If so you can setup a rule to automatically delete here messages without having to open it.
 
The emails - full of silly humour, funny pictures, more likely junkies, some are adult stuffs too. He doing it the same to me as I don't mind a bit.

I understand it makes their email full quota pretty quickly.

Her fiance using his email address to tell me to STOP. The last time I spoken to him about this email letter, he said "Really, have she?" (I thought to myself oh dear, I hope I don't make them quarrel afterward).

Hope I explained more clear this time?
 
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