Hey everyone!
I have been browsing through your forums at all the great information, and I thought I would post a question that has been bothering me for a while. I have a "crush" on a guy at my work who is deaf. I don't really know why..I know nothing about him but I can't seem to get him off of my mind. He cannot speak at all...He always signs. We have flirted back and forth a little bit. He makes cute gestures at me (like he bumped into me on purpose and laughed) and smiles at me a lot....but I am really confused on what to do? One day he seems flirty and the next he doesn't even look at me. I walked up to him today and had a piece of paper that said "Hi." (which I thought was cute...and took me tons of courage) He just kind of looked at me and waved weirdly and turned back around. For some reason, I can't get this guy off of my mind. I am not an agressive person, and I am afraid to ask him out because I really don't know what we would do on a date. I talk to his hearing/signing friends and it seems that he is always going out on dates and to "clubs" so maybe I am being silly thinking he even likes me....I guess it is easy for a hearing person to see a deaf person as somewhat antisocial. Anyway, sorry to have rambled on...any input is greatly appreciated!
I have been browsing through your forums at all the great information, and I thought I would post a question that has been bothering me for a while. I have a "crush" on a guy at my work who is deaf. I don't really know why..I know nothing about him but I can't seem to get him off of my mind. He cannot speak at all...He always signs. We have flirted back and forth a little bit. He makes cute gestures at me (like he bumped into me on purpose and laughed) and smiles at me a lot....but I am really confused on what to do? One day he seems flirty and the next he doesn't even look at me. I walked up to him today and had a piece of paper that said "Hi." (which I thought was cute...and took me tons of courage) He just kind of looked at me and waved weirdly and turned back around. For some reason, I can't get this guy off of my mind. I am not an agressive person, and I am afraid to ask him out because I really don't know what we would do on a date. I talk to his hearing/signing friends and it seems that he is always going out on dates and to "clubs" so maybe I am being silly thinking he even likes me....I guess it is easy for a hearing person to see a deaf person as somewhat antisocial. Anyway, sorry to have rambled on...any input is greatly appreciated!