Girls i need advice!

What should I do?

  • Dump his sorry little butt

    Votes: 24 92.3%

  • Forgive him ( even though this isn't the first time)

    Votes: 2 7.7%

  • Ignore him and wait for him to break up eith me

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Total voters
    26
Lil_country_gal

Lil_country_gal

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Ok my bf and i were watching the show next and the whole thing is every min you last on the date you get a dollar and if they ask you on a second date you can take the date or the money and i said to my bf i know you would never take the money because you love me so much he's like well how much are you willing to pay me.

Than while the girls were getting on the bus my bf's like she's really fat and the girl was actually fairly thin just wearing baggy clothes and i was like well hunny you do relize that i'm bigger than her and he's like yea so i said so your pretty much calling me fat. and he goes no your not fat you just weigh more than you should. :-o :tears: :tears:
 
Lil_country_gal said:
Ok my bf and i were watching the show next and the whole thing is every min you last on the date you get a dollar and if they ask you on a second date you can take the date or the money and i said to my bf i know you would never take the money because you love me so much he's like well how much are you willing to pay me.

Than while the girls were getting on the bus my bf's like she's really fat and the girl was actually fairly thin just wearing baggy clothes and i was like well hunny you do relize that i'm bigger than her and he's like yea so i said so your pretty much calling me fat. and he goes no your not fat you just weigh more than you should. :-o :tears: :tears:
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oooh...definetly NOT good way to say that to girls. *shooks head*

lmao...why you dating that guy anyway? sounds like he doesn't even know how to talk smooth to girls like that lol.
 
so if that's not his first time and he treats you like that more than 20 times or so, then the best bet is to dump his sorry ass 'cause you can't let him talk to you of whatever he wants to say against you.
 
yea that's true but i forgot that he spent like 30 min crying and begging for forgiveness pleadng that he would never do it again :bsflag:
 
:rl: Lil Country Gal, this man of your's really needs a wake up call. First off and most importantly, it's not what you look on the outside, that a man should take into consideration. It's what you are on the inside. That is more important. For him to say those things to you, and not think before he speaks, is showing you so much disrespect.
Maybe it's time to take a little break, and let him realize what his life would be like without you for a little while. Maybe then, he won't be callously saying things about what you look like, but, instead how beautiful you really are on the inside.
Good luck, and I hope things do get better between you and your boyfriend. You do deserve that, and make sure he shows you more respect the next time, and thinks before he speaks. :hug:
 
I picked for you to dump his sorry ass , but.. you have to decide for yourself whether you want to be treated like that or not. If he was my bf, I'd dump him cuz he doesn't know how to respect girls or maybe anybody. But its your decision.. not ours.. Good Luck on deciding.. Do what's best for you, hon!
 
I honestly don't know what to do that's why i'm asking but i gotta go for a couple hours keep replying it's alot of help :hug:
 
Lil_country_gal said:
yea that's true but i forgot that he spent like 30 min crying and begging for forgiveness pleadng that he would never do it again :bsflag:
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I wouldn't be surprised if he does it again.
 
sorry to be blunt, dump his sorry ass. He is not that considerate enuff. Once he does it, he will always do it. Sorry... things will turn out better for you without him. Hugs.
 
You deserve better than this.....if he really cares about you as a "person", he shouldn't be saying about the weight....he should love you as you are inside.

I agree with everyone....dump him, honey. There are other guys out there who do appreciate you on the inside as well as the outside. :)
 
I picked dump him, if he did it before, u know he's going to do it again. Not worth it.
 
Lil_country_gal said:
Well i haven't broken up with him yet but we've been having some serious talks
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I bet he's pretty much overweight himself too lol
 
i think ur date is using you for some reason, since ask ur attention for ur forgive. That's basic on winning to get u back. If he really meant that hes apology, he should not do it again. That's show u that he do care and learn his mistaken. Well, I think the suggestion is to dump. U have ahead of ur life to forward to. Remmy that ur worth that men don't aware themselve til get know you well.
 
:grouphug: I know you'll make the right decision Lil Country Gal. Just make sure he stands by what he says, and hopefully he doesn't hurt you like he just did. I agree with what everyone has said here so far, and you do deserve a lot more respect than what he's giving you.

There is someone out there who thinks you're very beautiful on the inside, as well as on the outside.
 
I agree with most of the members here in this thread, it such a shame that some men have to be a bit picky on the outside, they should love their partner no matter what....

And what if you become pregnant, what will he say then?.... :(
 
^Angel^ said:
I agree with most of the members here in this thread, it such a shame that some men have to be a bit picky on the outside, they should love their partner no matter what....

And what if you become pregnant, what will he say then?.... :(
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"uh honey? I think we are out of milk so I'll go hit the market...see ya!"

*runs to the car, starts the engine, and runs his ass outta here for good*

(from "the simpsons" where in the future Nelson the bully had sex with the twins, and he told the twins that he was going to hit the market, and they asked him, "isn't that what your father told your mother?" and he replied, "uh...yeah." and he runs off.)
 
Steel said:
"uh honey? I think we are out of milk so I'll go hit the market...see ya!"

*runs to the car, starts the engine, and runs his ass outta here for good*

(from "the simpsons" where in the future Nelson the bully had sex with the twins, and he told the twins that he was going to hit the market, and they asked him, "isn't that what your father told your mother?" and he replied, "uh...yeah." and he runs off.)
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LOL steel!!! You got it going with the "Simpsons"?????? You're crazy!
 
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