Okay single for 5 years. I have dated occassionally but not found some one that does it for me. Qualifications, smart is one. Be beautiful all day long if you are dumb i can get with it. Sense of humor is a must i love to laugh. Act like a man. I act gay when i am joking around, that is fine but how i normally act is like a man. I have friends who are fem but that is a turn off as far as that goes. Have a good head on your shoulders, don't have to be rich but have it together, job, car, place to live, etc... Be respectful to other people. Have some sophistication, not a snob, but not uncooth. No drama, i run from it. Make no mistake if drama finds you i got your back. And don't lie to me or cheat on me. I can catch a lie with a quickness, if you lie you have shown what little regard you have for me. I have to of course be physically attracted to him. My qualifications are how a man conducts himself and how he treats others. Then looks. I'm not a size queen either but um.... you know where i am going with that. LOL I don't like extremes in either direction as far as that is concerned.
Oh yes and i have met guys that i thought were real cute, second sentence, "so are you a top or a bottom". Um so apparently all you want is sex, while i LOVE SEX you need to be more interested in me than getting a piece! LOL =)