Do you fight????

sequoias said:
Yeah arguing makes relationship better, in general. It helps to learn from mistakes and overcome what we have done. Of course, I argue with my gf sweetheart. It sure does make relationship better and stronger. :)
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i agree sequoias! very well said! :thumb:
 
sequoias said:
Yeah arguing makes relationship better, in general. It helps to learn from mistakes and overcome what we have done. Of course, I argue with my gf sweetheart. It sure does make relationship better and stronger. :)
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yea i agree with u.. u got good point! :thumb:
 
i had agure with FlyFree few time in some point to wake up in the each other in our relationship... i don't expect any perfections in our relationship...
 
Yeah, I learned a lot from relationships, so I realized what arguments are all about. ;) So, I'm sure lot agree with me because many have been in relationships and know what it is like.
 
sequoias said:
Yeah arguing makes relationship better, in general. It helps to learn from mistakes and overcome what we have done. Of course, I argue with my gf sweetheart. It sure does make relationship better and stronger. :)
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Well said!

We married for over 20 years and there're ups and downs in marriage life... It's impossible to be prefect and never argue for over 20 years... It would be too boring if there're NO argue...

Depend on kind of argue... If there're problem we have to solve each other until the problem is fix.

If there're immature things then I ignore and walk away. I don't beleive to waste my time to agrue over that immature things but REAL PROBLEM, we solve, then I listen and work with it.
 
sequoias said:
Yeah, I learned a lot from relationships, so I realized what arguments are all about. ;) So, I'm sure lot agree with me because many have been in relationships and know what it is like.
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I agree with you.
 
There's no avoiding an occasional disagreement now and then. No matter how much you love someone, you are different people and are not going to agree on everything all the time. Besides, it's good to have the sense of self to be able to develop your own opinions and defend them.

If there is a lack of respect in the arguments, or if you argue about fundamental differences that just aren't going to be resolved, then there is a bigger problem.

My first husband and I never fought because we just didn't care what each other thought. My current husband and I argue regularly, and we have a much healthier marriage.

Of course, it helps that he has learned to admit when he's wrong. :naughty:
 
yea our fights have now become him asking me to completly change who i am he's yelling at me to let go of the past when he knows i'm just not ready yet so yea it's gotten really hard now
 
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