Deaf teenager and sex - help please!

BlondeGirl said:
You have a good point. I have had friends who grew up at deaf schools and they would tell me stories about having sex with their friends and doing drugs. Who are watching them? I would not send off my kids to a school and stay there during the weekdays and wonder who watches them. I would prefer them to come home during the week and weekends so that I can raise them. It is parents' responsiblity, not the school. I am not saying deaf schools are bad. I have 2 deaf nieces that attends deaf school and my sister-in-law and her husband moved close to the school so that the kids can come home during the weekdays and weekends. I just can't stay home wondering what my kids are doing during the weekdays with no superivisor.
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Well, that what I am going through.. my daughter is 12 1/2 years old, I just pulled her out from school due to peer pressure and scholl situtaions.. She is accepting cuz i made alot of points and point out to her.. what its best for her and >us<..

I would just go ahead & pull out a child who is sex active.... and if you are working, call boss to take 2 weeks off.. that you have family emgenercy.. work with her.. stay home with her, go to family dr.. to have tests to make sure she dont have any dieases STD and etc.. have family dr talk to her about unsafe and safe.. then go counselor..
just important thing.. WORK with child.. also.. unplug computer and toss in garage for while..
that what i did !!!.. it works.. dont let child control or take over you..
good luck rachel's aunt.. huggs.
 
MsGiglz said:
Well, that what I am going through.. my daughter is 12 1/2 years old, I just pulled her out from school due to peer pressure and scholl situtaions.. She is accepting cuz i made alot of points and point out to her.. what its best for her and >us<..

I would just go ahead & pull out a child who is sex active.... and if you are working, call boss to take 2 weeks off.. that you have family emgenercy.. work with her.. stay home with her, go to family dr.. to have tests to make sure she dont have any dieases STD and etc.. have family dr talk to her about unsafe and safe.. then go counselor..
just important thing.. WORK with child.. also.. unplug computer and toss in garage for while..
that what i did !!!.. it works.. dont let child control or take over you..
good luck rachel's aunt.. huggs.
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yea MsGiglz have a good point!! i agree with her.. DO IT!
 
Rachelle's Aunt said:
My niece is 13 and is a resident at a school for the deaf in California. Last weekend she went home with a girlfriend (instead of coming home) and choose to have sex with a school-mate (15 year old boy)

We don't know what to do with her and are open to any suggestions.
She is a wonderful kid but VERY sexually aware and always has a different boyfriend who she "loves."
I have learned in the past that she frequently takes pictures of herself and uploads them on the internet, despite hours upon hours of informing her of the dangers. (yes, I sign)
She doesn't always tell the truth, and she is very self-centered.

Should we pull her out of this school?
We are at the end of our rope.
Suggestions, please? :ily:
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You could enroll her into a mainstreamed program near your home and be able to excerise more control over her comings and goings, and some people say that giving a 13 year old kid birth control is encouraging her to have sex more often, in my opinion being pregant at 13 is the worst thing besides getting STDS so its lose-lose situtation, have you considered counseling since you can't watch her 24/7. You could show pictures of STDS and how lives are ruined by one night thing.
 
I think she should be pull out of the school for some time.She may be explained very softly & friendly, the consequences of having sex at this stage, showing pictures.After some time she may be allowed for schooling but under stick supervision.
 
The best way you could do is observant with your own kids... but not 100%

I do that to my 2 daughters I do not trust them just because I am the head of father who is take care of responsible for observant and if want to see friends I have to advise friend's parent to keep eye for them if any problem let me know I will tell my kids that I became very strictly and not let my kids to become gullible and ruin their life and educational system too. I knew it is my responsible to take care of them always keep on eye them and if sneak not to show up class then I required school to be escort with them and observant as long as they doing good at school. and check up to make sure all of students in the class. I know that my ex-classmate guy asking my classmate girl to do a favor for sex and they did it during break lunch time they did not show up for the lunch time and they did got involved sex in my class while teacher is in dine room eating for lunch. No one is in my class the one who I caught them because I forgot to pick up my backpacker from there. It is difficult to keep on eye for them. They need to be install on video surviellance every class and be sure every student doing proper their way and if saw something improper and will immediate caught them help by video surviellance. The security guard been caught them many times so they finally got installed video surviellance in every classes and dorm in the hall way and lobby room and enterance door also outside in the campus area too. Some of other school did not have installed video surviellance that is a biggest problem and hard to get in caught with them. if you feel something funny about your daughter or son had sex check it out with doctor but if use condom it is hard to find evidence. But to girl yes broke virgin that can find evidence. I don't know what else to prevent them doing that. That is all I knew of that. Try work on it something better for you soon. Try discuss something better :grouphug:
 
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