Can you image how you feeling when you were me?

Aw but the good thing out of this is he's still coming ..:fingersx:
 
Angel said:
Aw but the good thing out of this is he's still coming ..:fingersx:
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Yeah, that´s what I said to Danny.

*Wait and see what happened on Sunday*

I won´t be on the online on Friday to Monday because my Dad, brother, nephew and niece from England will come over and stay with us on Friday... It´s very first time for them after almost 22 years...
 
Okay, I'll keep you and your family in my prayers :hug:
 
You have done the right thing: you invited him to be a part of and share a big event in Danny's life. Now its up to him to do the right thing and put his hard feelings aside. No matter what happens, your conscience is clean, and Danny needs to understand that his grandfather's behavior is not Danny's fault, or your and his father's fault. You did the right thing!
 
How old is he? Sometime people who is getting older, it become harder for them to write.
 
jillio said:
You have done the right thing: you invited him to be a part of and share a big event in Danny's life. Now its up to him to do the right thing and put his hard feelings aside. No matter what happens, your conscience is clean, and Danny needs to understand that his grandfather's behavior is not Danny's fault, or your and his father's fault. You did the right thing!
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:ty: for compliment.

I am really glad that I did it!!!
 
jazzy said:
How old is he? Sometime people who is getting older, it become harder for them to write.
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Yes I aware it but I know his handwriting of last year toward Notary which is different as his replied to Danny.

Anyway, he gave Danny a Congrulation of Confirmation card enclosed money. I check his form of handwriting to compare with his note writing... His writing in a card is neat which total different as he replied Danny.
 
Confirmation Updated.

My Dad, brother & niece came from London to stay with us was a really wonderful time...

On Confirmation Day, we saw FIL (my hubby's father) in the church for a first time. It's really strange feeling between us.

After Confirmation Day, we stayed outside to take pictures of Confirmed teenagers etc... FIL stayed distance from us... My Dad pushed us and walked with us to him... My Dad made first move to shake his hand to him and said "Hello, I remember you at wedding day". FIL accepted to shake his hand to my Dad then all of us to Alan's Godparents. My hubby asked him either he still come to our house to have a glass of champagne to cheer up to Danny then go to Restuarant... Surprisely he agreed to go along... :eek3: wow!

It's hard to build our relationship bond with him after over 10 years no contact. We talked a little... It takes a time.

Afterward, have afternoon coffee in our house but FIL decided to go home instead. He made a phone call to his girlfriend to pick him up but he don't want her to stop by my house but meet her at church. :ugh3: Okay, that's what he want. I gave him 4 piece of homemade cakes. No even word to say "Come to visit me" or whatever... No word to mention "see again" or whatever... All what he do is :hug: me and then :hug: :hug: my hubby and then cried and went off...

We were like :confused:

What do you think of this situation?
 
Well, From what I read, he is getting older, and maybe he doesn't like having no contact with his son and family. so he could be trying to connect with you guys again.

Maybe he misses his son. Granted, I don't know what happened to cause no contact, but My thinking is maybe he feels he is getting older and wants his family around him before he departs from this earth. That's the sense I'm getting.
 
BearBeauty said:
Well, From what I read, he is getting older, and maybe he doesn't like having no contact with his son and family. so he could be trying to connect with you guys again.

Maybe he misses his son. Granted, I don't know what happened to cause no contact, but My thinking is maybe he feels he is getting older and wants his family around him before he departs from this earth. That's the sense I'm getting.
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Yes that's what I have the same thought as you. It's not what I thought... Oh well...

We haven't heard from him since Danny's confirmation so we made move for second time to go his house to front him with invitation card to attend Alan's 11th birthday. Guess what, we feel unwelcome... :( He won't let us go in his house but stay outside and said that he don't know either he has time and will phone us and then shut the door quietly. Alan was like :eek3: and very disappointed because he thought his Opa (German word for Grandpa) is nice man what he saw him at confirmation for a first time.

Several hours later he called and saying that he can't make it up. Only few seconds to talk... Danny was like :eek3: huh? when he looked at phone... Just few seconds...?

I really feel bad for my boys... Now they see it themselves...

Okay, that's his choice. *shrug*
 
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