I have known some people and friends died of aids, and other have h.i.v postive and negative. But that don't stop me being friends to them. It not only just good looking people that look healthy or rich don't means they can't get aids. Anybody get it if you learn to avoid putting your health at risk. The "safest" sex is no sex. If you are having sex, "safer" sex is sex between 2 people who don't have HIV infection, only have sex with each other and don't abuse injectable drugs. Safer sex also means using condoms if you have any doubts about whether your partner is infected or whether he or she is having sex with someone else. Use male latex condoms every time you have sex. If a man doesn't want to use a male condom, use a female condom. Female condoms may not be as effective as male condoms, but they offer some protection. Never let someone else's blood, semen, urine, vaginal fluid or feces get into your anus, vagina or mouth.
My advice is also play it safe by using protection if you gonna have sex. If a guy refuse codom,, then too bad. No sex. I would rather wait long time before getting seriosly involved with a guy before having sex. If he push for sex, dump him. he not worth it and only want to get in your pants.