I don't ruffle want any feather but I don't think I'm out of line. There's a difference of being out of line and not knowing. I am merely trying to educate myself. Something I think that cause most prejducies in this country. People are afraid to ask. You told me something different so now I know. Please continue to educate an hearie person, I am always open to learning
As an aside note. I'm applying to graduate schools in the Library and information field and the concentration I'm doing is library services to the DOHH which includes children.