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Opal

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Brother/sister Fall Out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I believe family should to bury their hatchet, life's so short.

BROTHER/SISTER FALL OUT
My father-in-law never spoken to his only brother, they fall out over the death of his first wife (my mil) for 2 decades, and I was :-o to see Uncle at my father-in-law's funeral as I cannot understand WHY bother, it is so strange, I said nothing to in-laws family as I wasn't there when the fall out begin!

Money is the problem, my father-in-law accused of his only sister as GREEDY, she is money hungry. On the death of their father (my grandfather in law), Aunty want their house to be sold, my grandma in law will live with Aunty (her daughter) and she offer to look after her, and Grandma in law bought a house to be build at the back of her backyard, and Aunty charge her for mowing the grass!! As soon as my father in law found out, he went beresk, and he offer to help for nothing, but their mother said she is too old to get involved, blah, blah ................... FIL even sue his own sister for it and many other things, and it was too complicated, and sadly it drove him to early grave, died of heart attack!!

Everyone is too stubborn to be forgiven and forget!!

Sorry its off-topic, your welcome to add brother/sister's war here hee hee!! :o
 
I agree, forgive and forget is a very important in life. It's a shame that some families don't do that before it's too late, and Life is true short to hold onto something that isn't important to hold in our heart forever, staying mad forever. :nono:

Like what I saw that Michael asked Terri's parents and brother/sister to leave the room while Terri passing on, I found that really wrong because, that's her family, They should be there too, just like Michael should also even through he was still married to her. It's a shame to think about yourself instead of the person who is dying. I would have put my feelings on the side and do it for my own family member who is passing away. That's me through. And that's them. I don't think Terri would be happy if she knew this, It would have hurt her even more that the family fallout for her sake, even through she never ask for that to happened. Anyway, I forgive all my sisters, my brother or even my dad or mother for all that they've done that hurt me in the past, because I know they are still my family and my fresh and blood. I couldn't stay mad forever, because I'll regret it. ;)
 
too bad I never experienced siblings since I am only child. But I do see huge sisters war of my husband's. It gotten so bad until my parents in law's 50th wedding anniversary which started the war.

they didnt speak each other until my father in law got diagonsed with Alzheimers, they started to speak again and help each other to get this through with their dad. it is nice to see them talking again.

I agree with you that Terri's parents should be there for their firstborn to die. I think Michael did was wrong thing to do. Heartwrenching for the parents.
 
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