STEEL SAID THIS, in the thread, "Love is not important"
"""""""erm...no offense but it seems you pick too many guys at random for date and stuff like that...that's not really too good. It's always a high possibly that some people would think you are a *cough* slut *cough* or anything similar to that...I mean, sure, dating is one of the best ways to find someone you fele is right for you, and to love him or whatever like that...but going out with more than one guy in the same year when you didn't even finish seeing the other one...you are considered a *cough* slut *cough* *ahem* anyway, what you mentioned about the black man seems pretty friendly so maybe you should keep hanging out with him some more and see how it goes so far after one year?
relationships are NEVER easy...even though love is the most important thing in the world...it's still a challenge to everyone. everything in life is a challenge to you. It's always wise to pick men more carefully, but sometimes women though they did, and after they find out how the man treated her wrongfully, she divorces him...some people are just so fucking weird after a few years of marriage they suddenly have a different personality so be EXTREMELY careful about that, trust me.
so...dont give up about men...hell, I've been through the similar path when I always asked a bunch of girls out just for some dinner and a movie, etc...they always say no or that they are busy or that they are already taken...but the real reason is that they've never went out with a deaf guy and they feel they dont have any experience with a guy who have hearing disablity or whatever like that and always go out with a hearing guy who thinks would make their life much easier that way but wait till they find out how their guy treated them and they would wish they never said no to me because I would never take advantage of a girl for sex, money, or anything like that...ever.
You are old enough to make your decisions and shit like that...so if you still wish you want to be loved and have a normal relationship with some guy you like, then it's not too late...just keep trying.
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