Hi Shel, didn't wanna go off-topic in thread where this originated but just thought I 'd add comment about your answer to my ques. in the "ask and answer" game where you responded that you would be back in 20's <in time> - answer reminded me - my Bubbie - grandma - came to the U.S. in the early 20's and she quickly became a flapper!
She was very "rebellious" as a woman in her time-
She was very "rebellious" as a woman in her time-

for advice Buffalo - my oldest living relative that I know of and can reach would be my dad; he's in his late 70's. All my grandparents and any of their siblings dead as well as my dad's only sister. My father's sis had just started doing some research when she died. There's a lotta mystery and unknowns because of the fact that any Jewish and/or Roma relatives that made it over were leaving due to persecution - we even recently found out that my father's original Russian Jewish last name <which the family did change/shorten after some years of being here and which I kept> - may have been bought in order to get here.