Aarrgghhhh I'm Being Stalked By Some Sicko Crazy Guy

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Here what I posted on my xanga.com, so I don't have to type again.. The guy, Eddie have been stalking me since few weeks, changed his sn, everytime I block him on my SN, he keep popping up with new SN and I am not interested in him anymore.. first you will have to read my other thread here at http://alldeaf.com/showthread.php?t=19161 then read below..

Eddie is soo desperate- wanted to be my friend but I refuse..

Ok here is what happened this morning, uh, almost yesterday if its past midnight at where you are at....

I made biggest mistake by giving my cell # to a guy offline, named Eddie from Kenyon that I met- it turned out he have been stalking me ever since... he even texted me too much, bugging me, and on yahoo messanger he used all screennames to bug me too. Before we met, he flirted with me, and wanted to date me, and then at MOA he did same thing then next day he dumped me, want to be friend with me, I was like WTF????? I hate guys who play games with me... Eddie gave out my cell # to people I really don't know, and they bugged me too, so I had to change my cell #. If I see him at State Fair when I am working, I will ask him to leave, if he refuse, then he will have good luck with St. Paul police...

This morning he told me he would kill himself- Here what from yahoo IM conservation-

fabfourboy: you know what i am very close of doing somehing very bad to myself rachel
fabfourboy: why wont you talk to me
fabfourboy: so what if someone else has your number
fabfourboy: she doesnt know you
fabfourboy: she dont even know where you're from
mnpoliticalgirl: are u gonna kill urself or what??
fabfourboy: why,you dont care
mnpoliticalgirl: you need get some help
fabfourboy: no i dont
mnpoliticalgirl: go to psych ward or something
fabfourboy: fuck you,i can do whatever i want,you dont like me so why should you care
mnpoliticalgirl: fuck yourself, I am not that dumb
fabfourboy: did isay you were
fabfourboy: i just want to go back to the way we were before
fabfourboy: but you are just being stubborn
fabfourboy: i liek you very much as a friend rachel
fabfourboy: you will never find a bf how you act
fabfourboy: you never will
fabfourboy: thats why you get turned down
fabfourboy: then you go offline and never tell anyone you are leaving
fabfourboy: cant you see rachel you hurt my feelings too
fabfourboy: see you dont care
fabfourboy: you dont care if im alive or not
fabfourboy: bye

Hell, what he talk about, I really don't care.. I wouldn't be surprised if I read in newspaper that he killed himself, that is his choice not mine to die... It sounds like he really need some professional help... He thinks that deaf people are different.. not to me, they are all same to hearies... I also got sick of him talking about collecting and pick up trash/garbage in people's yard.. its not normal thing, right?? He is so OBESSED on trash/garbage!! thats why i m sick of get text message from him "Hey, guess what? I found a nice pillow in trash this morning"... I am not too interested in that.. He acts like if he is some sick fan stalking a politicos or celebrities.... I feel like he is one of most crazy and sickest fan (hint: I am kinda of political celebrity).. He oughta to learn how to leave me alone or he will be slapped with No-Contact Order.....
 
Sounded familiar like to my idiot ex bf that stalked me long ago (I assumed that AngelWolf was knowledged of this situation) Geez u know some ppls are dumb enough to try to do something like that. U know what I did to him as my idiot ex bf while I lived in Hawaii. I warned him and gave him false statement to police that freaked him out.
 
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ya ya ya, Eddie is very controlling- also want some attention from me.. He kept begging me can we meet again? I told him I am sorry I don't want to be his friend, anything to do with him plus I will work and go school fulltime (don't worry I will have time for AD).. Hes a ferk from small town, thinks that people like me that lives in Twin Cities are snobs... I was like WTF!! thats wrong.. I will inform my supervisors tomorrow at training to make sure he stay away from my booth at the fair. If he don't listen to them ask him leave, then he will have fun time with St. Paul Po-Po
 
well i do have experienced too, all do is igrone, it does work, make them less and less bother u. Just DON'T talk them back! Just block them if they keep it up bother u, just don't say nothing to them. It works for me, but that person still bother me rarely than before. Even i don't like it at all! Just simple igrone, they just want ur attention and obbession that's all.
 
AIM Privacy

Sorry to hear that you have to go through this.


Here's a suggestion on AIM

edit options > edit preferences > Privacy > Who can contact me

change it from "Who can contact me" to "Allow only users on my buddy list"

Make sure you remove unwanted buddy(ies) on your list then you're safe.
 
:gpost: I agreed with her..... it works.. give it try..

Geez, I hate what it happens.. one little mistake becomes HUGE..
Hang in there girl. you are doing so well and stick with it..

there's other thing, call police.. saying that you have stalker keep callingyou on your text and your computer.. and your cell... thats only your proof.. the police will see it.. and will help you with restraining order..

(I went through this 4 years ago with my ex's gf) smh! hehe
 
whoa! he is sicko and :crazy: if he still bother u then u can call cop on him.. since ms giglz say that..she is right.. try that..
 
Katzie said:
Sorry to hear that you have to go through this.


Here's a suggestion on AIM

edit options > edit preferences > Privacy > Who can contact me

change it from "Who can contact me" to "Allow only users on my buddy list"

Make sure you remove unwanted buddy(ies) on your list then you're safe.
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Katzielove taught me a lot about AIM features when I was a n00b at those. She's quite right about this and it does work. You will notice a pop up feature after you do the above. The pop up feature will say "Accept Message (with the person's name)" and if you do not know the person, click "Yes or No" It's a wonderful feature to have.

Thanks Katzielove!! ;)

A gentle suggestion, next time be more careful not to hand out your private information if you say you are a political celebrity. No one is safe from crazy people out there.
 
Hello all....
He only bug me on yahoo messanger not aol aim... He also go by other SN, bnsf2006.... He kept on bugging me want be my friend but I just press deny and ignore.. I'll have to put him on ignore on yahoo messnager list when I get home- I'm on my sk2, and I'm just done with training @ the fair. I already informed my supervisor after the training, she said ok, and if she isn't there, I'll inform other staff that work at my shift. I told her I'd bring the pic of that guy that he emailed me, and I'll write descreption and give to her on thursday..... She said good idea..... I told her if he bug me, we can ask him to leave, if refuse then call cops... He's :nuts:
 
Yea it scary situation you got there. I hate that. Yea I used who contact me only on the list and it works for me. I had too many stranger iming to me and i didnt want to talk to stranger unless they says why are they iming to ya. I am sorry to hear that you have to go thru like that. :hug: Hang in there girl.
 
pull up an restrainting order against him and hope he never even touch you again.

afterall, all you can do is just ignore him even though it does seem very clearly that he obviously do have problems and need to get some serious professional help...sooner or later, before he would really kill himself for sure.
 
Well I think he might have Asperger's Syndrome. Not to make excuses for him, but some people with Asperger's Syndrome have such bad social skills that they don't realize that they are bothering others.
I told him I am sorry I don't want to be his friend,
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Have you explained fully and throughly WHY you don't want to be his friend? Some people just need more information.....How about maybe sending him a letter explaining IN DETAIL why you don't want to be friends? Then if he persists contact the cops!
 
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