I understand you get through all pain... you dont have to go to college i think you should study courses online through degree program. If your employee or employers make fun of your disablity you will have to see human resource or deaf lawyer that you have notebook to proof. you have to stand...
you have the two options
1. why don't you study online through programs. you stay at home with
kid
2. you need to see Voc Rehab abut daycare if you are full time student
thats all i said.. Good Luck