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I want to know why gay men are so obessive about having the sex? Even though I am gay myself, but it is getting annoying when gay men asking me to have the sex all the times.

Examples:

When I chat with one of my friend who are gay, and he want me to come over, I told him sure I want to, then he told me "Well my friend is here at my apartment right now, I prefer other time so we can a nice night". I was like wtf? His friend is my friend too and I would like to see him too, but I didn't say anything but skipped him.

Other guy who I chat with, who are gay too, he ask me if he can come over and get drunk, which give me the hints that he want to have sex with me. He kept begging me to let him to come, but lucky other my friend want me to visit her so I skip that guy and visit her instead.

I didn't mean ALL of gay guys are too horny for me, but why sex?? Is that only the reason why men want to be gay just because they want to have sex with boys or men? I mean what about the relationship or love or learning about each other or a truly friendship?
 
My gay friends do disappoint after sex and then left! :eek2: so careful and find a right one:)
 
I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.
 
I can relate to that from my personal experiences...

Most gay men who wants to have sex with strangers or friends... It is all about boosting their egos.

Some of my gay friends always brag how many guys they have sex with.

Some gay people I know believes that having sex could lead to long term relationship.

Some gay people I know believes that having sex will give them the result if these people who they having sex with are right people for them.

People (not just gay) in the general like to have sex for their own pleasures and need to let it out.
 
PlateCafe said:
I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.
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That person is fucked up dude, seriously!
 
No offense, a lust is a man's weakness I think. Because, normally, I seen many males are sex-hungry, however, I also had been a few females just fucked them and left them for gossping about them to hurt their feelings.

Funny, what I see is... a "dangerous" female who can manitlapive a male's heart. MANY TIMES. No offense, really. Besides, its IMO.

I guess a word, "lust", is just too much for a person's (either a male or female) own weakness. :dunno:

I think there is one sovle a problem: open-minded parents are probably can reduce a lusty if they treat a child properly. Maybe?

What's your thought, you guys? Inculding you, Zack too. :)

PS- Yeah.. I hate what they are doing to gay men and girls, too.. *sighs*
 
PlateCafe said:
I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.
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I disagree with that man, gay couples can have the chocolate box or roses. He said that gay guys are cheap and want to have sex with them is quite rude.

MetroGuy03 said:
I can relate to that from my personal experiences...

Most gay men who wants to have sex with strangers or friends... It is all about boosting their egos.

Some of my gay friends always brag how many guys they have sex with.

Some gay people I know believes that having sex could lead to long term relationship.

Some gay people I know believes that having sex will give them the result if these people who they having sex with are right people for them.

People (not just gay) in the general like to have sex for their own pleasures and need to let it out.
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Egoism, good word. Yeah I understand everyone like to have sex, but why always sex? I can see your point, having the sex to boost their egoism. Thank you for sharing your opinion! :)

Mann_K05 said:
No offense, a lust is a man's weakness I think. Because, normally, I seen many males are sex-hungry, however, I also had been a few females just fucked them and left them for gossping about them to hurt their feelings.

Funny, what I see is... a "dangerous" female who can manitlapive a male's heart. MANY TIMES. No offense, really. Besides, its IMO.

I guess a word, "lust", is just too much for a person's (either a male or female) own weakness. :dunno:

I think there is one sovle a problem: open-minded parents are probably can reduce a lusty if they treat a child properly. Maybe?

What's your thought, you guys? Inculding you, Zack too. :)

PS- Yeah.. I hate what they are doing to gay men and girls, too.. *sighs*
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I agree with you, it can be dangerous when girls play with guy's heart. But guys can be dangerous if they get violence.

Anyway, about open-minded parents, well it depends.. I have one friend who I raise with, his parents always let him look at the porno, etc. but now he is very addicted to the sex and porno, and he was also a drugs addictor.

It's all just depends on how people desire for sex, ya know.
 
Actually, gays are a lot more sexual obsessed than straights. The STD epidemic within homosexual communities is a POWERFUL evidence for their sexual addiction.

Gays admit more sexual encounters than straights. Not surprising.

Gay communities are horrible - they're a disgrace. They promote moral decay. They promote the spread of STD's. They promote safe sex over abstainance. They promote hedonism. The average gay man dies up to 20 years younger than the average straight person (due to drugs, HIV, etc). That's why I have low opinions of the gay community.
 
I don't find that a " sex " is the number one priority. To me, sex is always the last ... probably I will say a zillionth at the end of the line. It's okay to have sex once in a while because, your health might need it to help gettin' well from runny nose or some kind of colds. It also helps some people to sleep better and other reasons.

But, if they want to have sex with you the whole time - then, there's somethin' wrong. It is not healthy to have sex alll the time like 24/7 or 365 days. Yikes ! :lol: It's gettin' stale.

Best to use your judgement not to get caught if, they give you STD or some kinds of disease. Just becareful because, you are more important than receivin' " death " sentence. You mean alot to some friends, families and AD members here. :)
 
PlateCafe said:
I chatted with a man online. He told me he is not gay. He doesn't want to divorce his wife, because he loves her. His wife dislikes sex. He said he wants to have sex with gay men, instead of women because they can get pregnant. Also gay men are cheaper. No roses. No Box of chocolates. He opposes Gay marriage.
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hehe, that's southern style man.
 
Maria said:
I don't find that a " sex " is the number one priority. To me, sex is always the last ... probably I will say a zillionth at the end of the line. It's okay to have sex once in a while because, your health might need it to help gettin' well from runny nose or some kind of colds. It also helps some people to sleep better and other reasons.

But, if they want to have sex with you the whole time - then, there's somethin' wrong. It is not healthy to have sex alll the time like 24/7 or 365 days. Yikes ! :lol: It's gettin' stale.

Best to use your judgement not to get caught if, they give you STD or some kinds of disease. Just becareful because, you are more important than receivin' " death " sentence. You mean alot to some friends, families and AD members here. :)
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Women need sex, especially during Ovulation time. Husbands can be
raped by wives. I think women are the one who control population growth.
Men want to have sex all the time. Early this summer at the park, I saw a young (age 20's) Black albino woman with 6 little kids. Men were all over her. Poor girl.
 
netrox said:
Actually, gays are a lot more sexual obsessed than straights. The STD epidemic within homosexual communities is a POWERFUL evidence for their sexual addiction.

Gays admit more sexual encounters than straights. Not surprising.

Gay communities are horrible - they're a disgrace. They promote moral decay. They promote the spread of STD's. They promote safe sex over abstainance. They promote hedonism. The average gay man dies up to 20 years younger than the average straight person (due to drugs, HIV, etc). That's why I have low opinions of the gay community.
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Your opinion of gay community is very interesting. I never thought about gay men have tendencies of having sex with different men in general and get more STDs, HIV, etc than straight men.

Personally, I love sex, but I have to be careful with whom I get involved with. I am in the middle 30's, my hormones are crazy as fuck. I am telling you. :eek3: Oh, well that's life.
 
I wonder why the men always want sex every day?? I dont understand why? why cant they accept wait few days to a week then make love? but no must have sex all times! they can do it with their best friend.. thats what they are for? :giggle:
 
I agree, I mean sex is great, but there are too many std's out there for me to take a chance, i'd rather find someone to be with then to go out every night & sleep with some random guy. I guess i'm more about relationships then anything else. That's rare to find anyone else who feels the same way tho. =\
 
HappyBoi said:
I agree, I mean sex is great, but there are too many std's out there for me to take a chance, i'd rather find someone to be with then to go out every night & sleep with some random guy. I guess i'm more about relationships then anything else. That's rare to find anyone else who feels the same way tho. =\
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I agree! That's why I don't go any further with any guys... Only with boyfriends.
 
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